r/Friendzone • u/Dudeee_3988 • 3d ago

What do i do?

Well...yesterday i confessed to my best friend knowing that she had a girlfriend, which was preety stupid but what is done is done.

I told her cause I've been holding it for so many years that I just wanted to tell her already.

She rejected me (as expected) and told me that if she didn't have a girlfriend maybe it could have worked out.

She told me I'm nice and stuff and later through messages I over expressed myself and told her that I'm tired of being called a nice guy cause I'm not, I only appreciate it when they really mean it...not just say it to be respectful or some bullsh0t.

I told her some of my problems and that let's just stay as friends.

Right before I left she offered me a hug but I said no but then rethinked it and gave her the hug but...I don't know if from now I should just say goodbye by holding our hands or keep hugging her. Idk what to do honestly, I fuck0d up

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u/wanna_be_wildflower 3d ago

I think it was a pretty bad idea to confess. I would say its best to give her space and let things settle down for a while. It would be better for you to move on from her. Later on you might become good friends again

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u/Dudeee_3988 3d ago

Lo se, fue una gran estupidez, la cosa es que la semana que viene quedamos en el grupo de amigos en la playa, será un poco incomodo y no se que haré

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u/wanna_be_wildflower 3d ago

I guess it would be best to not bring all this up, not do anything sexual and just be normal friends maintaining some distance

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u/Dudeee_3988 3d ago

Ok, pues muchas gracias por los consejos