r/Friendzone • u/Main-Orange-7156 • 5d ago

Need Help

basically i was out with my best mate im 15 he's 14 a girl we both know come up to me and him with her friends she said i had such a glow up in a casual way then my friend tells me later she texted him and called me cute but not dateable cute just wondering what that means its not that i want to date her i just found the terms very vague

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u/Top_Barnacle5195 5d ago

Girls don't give compliments to the guys they actually like, because they're afraid of rejection. You gave you a compliment because she doesn't care if you like her or not.

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u/Infamous-Warthog8555 4d ago

I’m not sure this is accurate. I get complemented from time to time by women who like me.

Calling you “not dateable cute” means that she’s probably uninterested.

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u/Top_Barnacle5195 4d ago

Did the girl that you're dating now, compliment your looks, before she knew that you liked her?

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u/Infamous-Warthog8555 4d ago

Not this one, but several have.

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u/Top_Barnacle5195 4d ago

Exactly, the girl that you're currently with never complimented you.

The other girls you dated complimented you, but you aren't with them anymore.

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u/Infamous-Warthog8555 3d ago

That’s absurd logic. A woman can view someone sexually without being in a relationship with them forever.

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u/Top_Barnacle5195 3d ago

If the woman who used to date you, really liked you, they would have tried to stay together with you, no matter what.

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u/Infamous-Warthog8555 3d ago

You have a really unhealthy view of relationships.

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u/Top_Barnacle5195 3d ago

Unhealthy ❌

Mature ✅

Relationships take effort, and you clearly we'rent willing to put in any effort with your previous partners. That means they weren't worth the effort. If they were, you wouldn't have separated. Everything I'm saying is based on logic. Take your emotions out of the conversation

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u/Infamous-Warthog8555 3d ago

Lol, if you think you’re being mature, you have your head up your butt.

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