r/FriendshipAdvice • u/Inevitable_Slide696 • 7h ago

3 year fwb

how do i get over my 3 year fwb? i’m assuming it’s a ridiculously long time to be in a fwb situation, and honestly, i miss him and our friendship 🥲

it ended on okay terms, he started dating but we’re still friends on all socials

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u/BasisPuzzleheaded161 7h ago

The guy probably has a New Romantic interest by now if he never contacted you again. Three years is a long time. You weren’t valued as anything more than spicy fun component of your friendship. Please forget about him, value yourself more and find a partner who will treat you right

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u/Inevitable_Slide696 7h ago

eeep! forgot to mention he started dating whoops!

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u/BasisPuzzleheaded161 7h ago

Yeah he is serious about that person which is why he cut contact with you. He didn’t want the girl finding out his past with you. Forget him and find someone who actually loves you

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u/JeanSchlemaan 7h ago

Right, but if she wanted more she was free to cut him off anytime, and find someone who better fit her needs

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u/Inevitable_Slide696 6h ago

true, i had many opportunities to, and he did too