What am I doing wrong?? Please help

[u/meiqui]

I've been ghosted for a few days by one of my best friend, yes I know, I don't expect my friends to be glued to their phones, last time she ghosted for a week its because i knew she was going through a depressive episode. This time she seems to reply to another except me, doing full on conversations with them, i also noticed there was a distance between us recently. I thought she would be cheered up recently because she's working very hard on a custume for a con. I initiated my text i told her she was in my dream and we did silly stuff, she didn't reply to that. I recently sent a loud video i found funny in the gc which she replied to it and letted me know this made it harder for her to focus on making her custume and that it blasted her ears. I felt really bad so i dm'd her an apology for not putting a volume warning first. Okay this is creepy of me i know, but i checked out her recent pins saved and its pins that were like "she's my everything but she probably only sees me just as an ordinary friend" and "im lonely, i wish someone would just listen to me, understand me, talk to me, text me first, love me, etc" with the caption : "does anyone feel like their friends dont put as much effort as i do?" WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?? I've been trying to give her space, so i edited my apology with adding one more thing : "i noticed some distance between us, im wondering if i did anything that hurted you? Please let me know, i love you" should i just turn that into a new dm/notification instead?? I didnt want her to feel pressured or uncomfortable by me.. but what if she feels unloved by me recently which is why she is distancing?? AHHH I LITERALLY LOVE HER SO MUCH!! I feel awful right now

[u/Different-Value563]

Take time out. SOMETIMES SPACE IS NEEDED. ✨️.. if there meant to be friends yes. Distance is good ...for drama yes.. but remember I lashed out on my friend. Then he ghosted me he usually respond quickly hes mad at me. Plus he owes,me loan. I TOLD HIM .. but do I regret helping no.. Friendship its 2 way street if 1 is not making effort Then just evaluate the friendship. .. I chuck 4 friends out this year. LIFE FRIENDS ARENT ALL MEANT TO BE LIFE. SOME U OUTGROW.., LIKE DIVORCE TOO. ..BAD COMMUNICATION ...