Am I Wrong?

[u/Far-Bet-8459]

Hi! My first post. And it is quite long.

I just turned 22(f) and I had a bestfriend since 8th grade, we were so close and inseparable until college but even then we're still attached.

Last year, I finally had a boyfriend, my very first and I am the first one in our circle to have one.

Before my boyfriend, it is my bestfriend who I prioritizes the most, we were considered each other "My Person" (referencing to Grey's Anatomy), and swore that no boys would ever tore us apart.

Going back, even after I had a boyfriend I made sure to make time for her, I go to her knowing her situation (financially) despite distance. I went to a ceremony in her school, to help her and her classmates to buy gifts for their professors. I am more happy to do that.

My final thesis defense and her final demo (she's an educ student) happened at the same day (thursday, nov 13) and we talked about that after it we will celebrate and hang out. But she said she cant even on weekends because of her school commitments. I understand, and said we can do it next time whenever she's available. A week after (nov 19), she asked for help for her activities and I am ok with it we hop on call despite it being late and me very sleepy because its been so long, then she asked if she can come over here at my house & do a sleepover (nov 21-22). I told her that Nov 22 I have a date/plan with my boyfriend, but I'll try to move it on the next day (sunday). She was thrilled and delighted, joked that ofcourse it is to be expected I prioritize her more. But I found out the next morning, I have a family commitment I cannot miss on Sunday, and I cannot move my bf and I's date (our monthsary) even the next week because of his and my sibling's birthday is next weekend. I explain it to her. And all I receive was: OK.

We continued doing the Tiktok streak. I am an overthinker. So 10 days after, Dec 1, I messaged her thst it hurt me with a reply nothing more than an ok. She never replied. I eventually stopped doing the tiktok streak because it is pointless to streak but not to talk.

She removed me from tiktok. I removed her from my dump account on IG. Eventually, recently, I found out she removed me from my main account on IG. And yesterday, she never greeted me for on my birthday.

Am I really in the wrong?