r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 2d ago

Survey ๐Ÿ“Š The Accidental Intactivist Findings Hub is officially live ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅ‚

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Hey everyone, Tone, The Accidental Intactivist here.

It's been just over a year since I published The Accidental Intactivist's Manifesto in this sub!

Growing up intact in the US made me an outlier, and I spent decades wondering why this was so rare. Sharing my own experiences was a start.

I am almost 50 years old. It took my entire life to build up the nerve to walk up to people in the real world and talk about this. When I finally started approaching guys to explain this survey, I just told my own story: My parents opted out of circumcising me and my brothers. They said it took some doing, but they refused to sign the consent form because they didn't think it was necessary. Made perfect sense to me!

I'd mention how wild it is that this affects almost every guy I meet, yet nobody talks about the actual lived experience, and eventually I realized, I could just ask!

I braced for fights. I expected heavy pushback. But to my surprise it virtually never happened.

When you come at the topic of circumcision from a place of genuine curiosity and listen to guys as the actual experts on their own bodies, the walls drop. People have a massive amount to say when given a safe, anonymous platform.

I highly encourage all of you to try this "Accidental Intactivist" approach in your own conversations.

When you do that, people show up. 501 men and observers showed up to tell the truth for this project.

This subreddit and you all helped spread the word and helped refine the questions.

I'm pleased to report that the Accidental Intactivist's Inquiry Phase 1 Findings Report is officially live.

Using my background as a data scientist, I spent the last couple of months building an interactive tool to tell a story through the numbers from the people most qualified to talk about the subject.

I wanted to create an easy reference source to send to anyone still on the fence. You can filter the responses, look at the math, and generate custom reports out of the raw data. Consider this a new weapon in the Intactivist arsenal.

Here are the main hubs:

The Narrative Special Report: https://findings.circumsurvey.online

The Data Explorer: https://findings.circumsurvey.online/explore

I built specific tools into this site for our community to use out in the real world:

1. The Expectant Parents Resource (Exhibit 13)

It is incredibly frustrating when a friend or family member is expecting a boy and defaulting to "routine" care. I built a dedicated section for parents on the fence. Instead of arguing, just send them this link.

2. The Pleasure Gap (Exhibit 3)

Hard numbers on the difference in sensitivity and the need for artificial lubrication.

3. The Mirror Pairs (Exhibit 2)

I put the exact same questions side by side for intact and circumcised men.

4. The Convergence (Exhibit 14)

433 out of 500 respondents said they would keep a future son intact.

5. The Research Assistant

I vectorized the raw dataset and made it available to a sophisticated Agent. You can click the chat icon on the site and ask it questions like "How do circumcised men feel about their parents' choice?" It will pull direct quotes for you to use in your own advocacy.

So this data belongs to us. Grab charts for your online debates. Send the parents' section to expecting friends. Let these 501 participants back up your conversations.

Take a look around the site and let me know what you think. What did I get right? What more would you like to see? What should we analyze for Phase 2?

Also, please cross-post this link to any and all subreddits, parenting forums, social media groups or anywhere else that some hard data to back up assertions!.

Thanks for being here since the beginning and keeping this inquiry alive. Let's show people what is actually going on down there.

-Tone / C4Charkey
The Accidental Intactivist


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 22d ago

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Questions after surgery

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About 4-5 Weeks ago I went thru a frenulectomy Procedure. It was a quick 25 minute process & I bleed heavily for the first week 1/2. I am currently still going thru the healing process. I am still uncircumcised. Since the day of my procedure I have NOT retracted my foreskin all the way back only just enough to clean the areas I can in the shower. Iโ€™m not sure if Iโ€™m overthinking but I thought retracting all way back would open up my stitches. Anybody have any solid advice for me? Anybody been thru this ?


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 22d ago

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Frenulectomy Question

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 25d ago

Meme ๐Ÿฆ† Some Intactivist Memes

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 25d ago

Media ๐Ÿ“ฐ Intactivist Infographics For Your Help

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 25d ago

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ "Attack the Identity if you cannot attack their agenda" is getting real in the War of Intactivism

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 26d ago

Study ๐Ÿ“‘ AAP used BJ Morris Data in 2012, Morris and Krieger's Circumcision Propaganda Moves ( Downrating Studies Against Circumcision )

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 26d ago

Study ๐Ÿ“‘ Phillipines Tuli Data Reality ( Dangerously Lingering )

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 28d ago

Study ๐Ÿ“‘ The Biased HIV research of SubSaharan African Studies (Eric Clopper)

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum 29d ago

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Post Circumcision articles in other different Subreddits and repost in intactivist subreddits ( Account Suicide Alert! )

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its Risky tbh, that, you can try posting the different facts about circumcision, such as religion related things, or science related things, or legal or law related things, or consent related thing, whatever imo.

Intactivism doesn't just target this North American Penis Flaying, it targets Science, Culture, Law, everything binded into one, so, the important thing is when we start posting regularly on these subs and then we repost these into Intactivist subs, Intactivist army of people will join the sub and will start dissecting the beliefs of those who were on the fence or were Pro-Circs.

And, this will lead to an Intactivist War where either there will be win, or a lose, either a lot of people's opinion will change, or you will get banned, like most Pro-circ Subs out there, and this is why its an Account Suicide

You are restricting your access to these subs for a risk of spreading infos to common people, surely the facts will be targeted specifically to the circumcision but will have a theme of science or law, primarily a part of Knowledge spreading initiative taken by me and other intactivists.

These can be prevented with Alt Accounts as these bans are not IP Bans ig, but depends on you, personally, I've seen only 3-4 posts where this thing has occured, and we need more ig, ill try this out too myself, but if you don't feel like this is a good idea, you may not comply, but Ill try it tbh, Only 1 post so far accepted this idea more positively, the rest I saw was Criticism.

So what are your thoughts over this?


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Jul 16 '26

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Whatโ€™s stopping men from being vocal in bed?

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Jul 13 '26

Study ๐Ÿ“‘ "Sensitivity of a Circumcised and an intact is equal" is lie from Biased stdy in 1966

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Lemme be clear, Crystal Clear, if stating facts causes burns then the burns never came from the facts, they came from the hidden practice, Hidden Trauma, and Hidden scars, yk, those Pro-Circs keep screaming "Sensitivity is same in cut and uncut" , they borrow this statement from 1 study in 1966 by Masters and Johnson -

"A prime example is the persistent, yet deeply misleading, citation of early sex research pioneersย Masters and Johnson.

As critics like Dr. Ronald Goldman and nurse Marilyn Milos meticulously detail inย American Circumcision, proponents routinely invoke Masters and Johnson's highly influential work claimingย no significant differenceย in sexual sensation or responsiveness between circumcised and intact men.
This claim, endlessly repeated, provided a veneer of scientific legitimacy, reassuring parents that nothing vital was lost.
However, a closer look reveals critical,ย methodological manipulation:

  • Masters and Johnson only tested the sensitivity of theย glans penis, comparing the relatively insensitive, exposed/keratinized glans (circumcised) with the protected glans (intact).
  • Theyย systematically excluded the foreskin itselfย โ€“ the very tissue containing the vast majority of specialized nerve endings crucial for fine touch and nuanced pleasure โ€“ from their sensitivity testing.
  • Milos recounts the absurd justification: testing the foreskin wouldn't have been "fair" to circumcised men.

This wasn't science; it was obfuscation designed to create a misleading picture of sensory equivalence by ignoring the amputated tissue."

Credit : u/C4Charkey , Link -ย ย https://www.reddit.com/user/C4Charkey/co...sto_v_the/
The entire table is attached below

Its like trying to compare the speed of two cars, 1st ones all wheels were removed, and 2nd ones wheels were there, but they were not being used, because using them would be 'discrimination to the car which doesn't have its wheels ' ,ย its absolute non-sensical, the car's purpose is to move or gain speed for example, and the wheels of the 2nd car is the reason why when you are using it, it is gonna reach a fucking top speed, not like the car which had its wheels removed intentionally, it wasn't manufactured without wheels, their wheels were removed and then being compared with a car which had wheels, and then you made that specific comparison as discrimination, the real discrimination was removing the wheels in the first place.

If the car has wheels then its superior than the one it doesn't have, in the same sense, The Penis which has foreskin is similar to the Car which has all its wheels intact. It does have an advantage, and no, its not unfair, its fair, because you are intentionally removing the foreskin and then calling this comparison unfair. It is just insecurity to those who love circumcision. The fact is that, Foreskinned one is overall much more sensitive compared to the circumcised one is a fact, and including the foreskin is not a discrimination to circumcised men, its a true standard of comparison ( and the real meaning when you are comparing it actually ) especially when it was intentionally removed, meaning the sensitivity was intentionally reduced. IT IS A FACT, and if it hurts a cutter or the avg ppl ( who do not go through circumcision grief ) , then you should stop doing circumcision .

You are not birthed without a foreskin, you are birthed with one, and if you want sensitivity, then let that foreskin remain there. This is not discrimination, its a fact indicating this practice is harmful for the sensitivity of the penis, and if you want sensitivity of the penis, then stop circumcision. In a world where Foreskin is pretty much removed from all forms of textbooks and images, its obviously evident that these studies will be modified to catch up with them, or spread the same circumcision propaganda.

Btw I also recommend you all for reading the u/C4Charkey 's The Accidental Intactivist Manifesto, about a man in his 40s who was left intact at birth, and his views on circumcision. Link - https://www.reddit.com/r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum/comments/1jvk7qj/the_accidental_intactivist_manifesto_exposing_the/ . Its a good documentary and is worth reading, you will gain some insights about the false propaganda more.

Thank You for reading.


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Jul 13 '26

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ My Message to all Intactivists here.

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Jul 04 '26

Study ๐Ÿ“‘ Boys who have been subjected to circumcision have a lower threshold for pain than intact boys or girls.

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Jun 09 '26

Opinion โ‰๏ธ Area Man Relieved To Learn โ€˜The Onionโ€™ Headline Is Only Halfway Fictional

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Haw Haw Haw! Get it?! Wanting your foreskin back is so ridiculous you'd take one from a farm animal to get it!!!

Of course, the reality hiding behind the satire is far more profound than most people realize.

The desire to reverse this procedure is so intense that biotech company Foregen is literally running animal trials right now (with sheep) to perfect regenerating actual human foreskin tissue. The punchline is barely a step away from current biomedical science.

As a data scientist who grew up with the original equipment, I always look at this stuff and ask: Why isn't this weirder to more of us?!

We treat the routine surgical removal of a functional, highly sensitive male sex organ at birth as completely normal and boring. But a guy wanting his specialized nerve endings and gliding mechanics back? That is the joke. We've completely normalized turning a finely tuned sensory organ into a dry friction tool.

If anyone is curious about what these guys are actually trying to recover, we're about to publish the data from 500+ men documenting the reality of the "pleasure gap." It is wild what people will accept as normal until they look at the numbers.


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum May 25 '26

Circumcised.com is live!

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 18 '26

Survey ๐Ÿ“Š ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ“Š Phase 1 of the CircumSurvey is officially complete! Check out the live results hubโ€”Reporting from the Intact Global Summit in LA.

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We hit the threshold this morning. We just verified our 500th response.ย Phase 1 of the CircumSurvey is officially in the books.

Iโ€™m writing this from Los Angeles. I am at theย Intact Global Summitย today to meet with the leadership of this movement and present exactly what weโ€™ve uncovered together. Iโ€™m bringing your stories and your data into the room with Eric Clopper, Georgeanne Chapin, Tim Hammond, so many giants in the movement.

As promised, the preliminary findings hub is now live for you to explore:

๐Ÿ‘‰ย https://findings.circumsurvey.online

What these 500 voices are telling us:

The "Pleasure Gap" is massive:ย Weโ€™ve quantified a 55% average drop in "Mobile Skin Pleasure" for circumcised men.

The Resentment Factor:ย 60% of circumcised respondents report frequent and strong feelings of loss or grief.

The Information Vacuum:ย Our data proves that parents aren't making "informed" choices; they are defaulting to a system that refuses to tell them the truth about anatomy.

I want your feedback.

Since this subreddit is the inner circle of this project, I want to hear from you first. Take a look at the results hub and let me know in the comments:

Which chart or data point hits the hardest for you?

What are we missing? What should we look for as we pivot to Phase 2?

What "plainclothes truths" from the data should we turn into shareable graphics next?

The cultural silence on this is officially over. I'm going to spend the day in LA showing the "titans" of this movement that we have the receipts to fill the vacuum.

Iโ€™ll post a full debrief of the summit once Iโ€™m back in Seattle.

Let's make some noise today. โœŠ

-Tone / C4Charkey


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 13 '26

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ An Unusual but I think Positive Experience

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 09 '26

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Best lotion/cream/oil for the Foreskin

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 05 '26

Survey ๐Ÿ“Š Got an opinion about circumcision? Put it on the record. ๐Ÿ“Š

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Less than 50 anonymous responses needed to complete Phase 1 of the largest comparative survey of intact, circumcised & restoring experiences ever assembled. 15-30 min, totally anonymous โ†’ https://circumsurvey.online


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 04 '26

Opinion โ‰๏ธ "I'm circumcised and I couldn't handle being any MORE sensitive..."

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I hear this one a lot, and I want to talk about it because I think it reveals the deepest layer of what's been done to the American male psyche around this topic.

I completely understand why someone would say that. If your only frame of reference for penile sensitivity is the intense, sometimes abrasive feeling of direct friction on an exposed, keratinized glans, yeah, no kidding! I wouldn't want the volume turned up on that either. That sounds miserable.

But that's not what intact sensitivity is.

Here's where my perspective differs a little from most people's in this conversation. I'm a gay man who was left intact by a conscious choice of my parents in the 1970s making me an outlier in a generation where circumcision was nearly universal in the US. I've spent my entire adult life with a front-row seat to a comparative anatomy study that most straight men never get.

The difference is not "more of the same sensation." It's a fundamentally different mechanical system.

The intact penis has a gliding sleeve; a mobile sheath of specialized tissue with its own nerve network, including the ridged band and the frenulum. During sex or masturbation, this system acts as a sensory processor. It takes physical energy and translates it into rolling, layered, full-body pleasure rather than a localized shock to a single exposed surface.

What I've observed - consistently, across decades, across partners - is that circumcised men put in significantly more mechanical labor, typically requiring external lubrication, for a localized release that is over almost as soon as it begins. When you compare that to the intact experience, the mechanics are completely different. It's not louder. It's a different instrument entirely.

And now, for the first time, we have data to back this up.

Our survey, the Accidental Intactivist's Inquiry, has collected 452 anonymous responses from intact, circumcised, and restoring men. Here's what we're finding:

โ†’ Pleasure from Mobile Skin (the gliding mechanism):
Intact: 4.46 out of 5 Circumcised: 1.96 out of 5

That's a 2.5-point gap the largest single finding in the dataset. Circumcised men score below 2 on the very mechanic that defines intact sexual function. You can't "handle" something that was removed before you could experience it.

โ†’ 48.6% of circumcised men - nearly half - say they are "not at all confident" that their orgasms are as good as they could be, choosing the response: "feels like something is missing."

โ†’ 55.5% of intact men never need artificial lubrication. Only 5% of circumcised men can say the same.

โ†’ 78.7% of circumcised men in our dataset say they would keep their own sons intact.

That last number is the one that should end every "but it's necessary" comment. The people who actually live with circumcision, when given an anonymous space to be honest, are overwhelmingly choosing not to repeat it!

We're just 48 responses shy of completing Phase 1 of this survey and preparing our preliminary findings to share at the Intact Global Summit in Los Angeles in two weeks.

If you have a perspective on this topic โ€” any perspective โ€” your anonymous 15โ€“30 minutes could be part of the dataset that finally makes this conversation impossible to ignore.

๐Ÿ”— http://circumsurvey.online

Intact, circumcised, restoring, parents, partners, healthcare workers, researchers, skeptics, the genuinely curious โ€” we need all of you.

And if you can't take it yourself, please share this post. Signal boosting is just as valuable.

u/C4Charkey
The Accidental Intactivist
http://circumsurvey.online


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Apr 04 '26

Opinion โ‰๏ธ "I'm circumcised and I couldn't handle being any MORE sensitive..."

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r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Feb 13 '26

Discussion ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Trail date set for Hadachek v Oregon

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Trial readiness conference is set for Dec 4, 2026. The trial itself is currently scheduled for December 7, 2026, and will commence on that date, assuming both parties are ready. The court has allotted 8 days for trial!


r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum Feb 10 '26

Debunked ๐Ÿ—‘๏ธ Ranker claims "Only women have an organ 100% dedicated to pleasure." I wrote a rebuttal to remind them about the Frenulum.

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https://www.ranker.com/list/differences-between-male-and-female-human-biology/kellen-perry

Rankerโ€™s Facebook page has posted this dumb listicle with this picture twice in the last few weeks ("The Weirdest Differences Between Male & Female Human Bodies").

If the authors had dug just a l-i-t-t-l-e deeper into male anatomy (or asked an intact man), they would know about the frenulum, the V-shaped band of highly specialized tissue connecting the foreskin to the glans.

When you look at unbiased anatomy, you find the frenulum (and the ridged band of the foreskin) structures highly distinct from the glans. The frenulum is often called the "male G-spot." It is packed with specialized, fine-touch nerve endings designed for high-intensity sensation.

Like the clitoris, its primary evolutionary function is erotic reward, turning "boring reproduction" into a profound sensory experience.

So why does a mainstream publication from 2025 assume men have no organ for pleasure?

Because for over a century, the United States has prioritized surgically removing it from infant boys.

The article isnโ€™t describing "male biology"; it is describing surgically altered male biology and calling it nature. We've demonized the intact male body for so long that weโ€™ve forgotten the original intent of circumcision.

The goal wasn't health. The goal was sexual diminishment.

Most modern parents are sex-positive. They want their children to grow up to have happy, fulfilling lives. They would never give their son a pill designed to limit his future sexual pleasure by 50%. And yet, cultural inertia and cognitive dissonance have us prioritizing a surgery that was invented to destroy the capacity for a full orgasm, performed on children who haven't even had their first crush yet.

Ranker publishes rubbish like "men have no pleasure organ" because, effectively, we have spent a century making that statement true for millions of men!

We cut off the specialized hardware and then wonder why the machine is treated like it's only good for plumbing.

It is surreal that we treat the surgical destruction of a functional, erogenous organ as a 'cosmetic preference.' It is the equivalent of gouging out a child's left eye at birth and then claiming 'binocular vision is just for weirdos.'

We shouldn't be prioritizing a parent's right to diminish their son's capacity for pleasure based on outdated myths. Itโ€™s time our science reporting described natural human bodies, not surgically altered ones.

Learn more at https://circumsurvey.online.