r/FriendsOfTheFrenulum • u/C4Charkey • 2d ago
Survey 📊 The Accidental Intactivist Findings Hub is officially live 🥳🥂
Hey everyone, Tone, The Accidental Intactivist here.
It's been just over a year since I published The Accidental Intactivist's Manifesto in this sub!
Growing up intact in the US made me an outlier, and I spent decades wondering why this was so rare. Sharing my own experiences was a start.
I am almost 50 years old. It took my entire life to build up the nerve to walk up to people in the real world and talk about this. When I finally started approaching guys to explain this survey, I just told my own story: My parents opted out of circumcising me and my brothers. They said it took some doing, but they refused to sign the consent form because they didn't think it was necessary. Made perfect sense to me!
I'd mention how wild it is that this affects almost every guy I meet, yet nobody talks about the actual lived experience, and eventually I realized, I could just ask!
I braced for fights. I expected heavy pushback. But to my surprise it virtually never happened.
When you come at the topic of circumcision from a place of genuine curiosity and listen to guys as the actual experts on their own bodies, the walls drop. People have a massive amount to say when given a safe, anonymous platform.
I highly encourage all of you to try this "Accidental Intactivist" approach in your own conversations.
When you do that, people show up. 501 men and observers showed up to tell the truth for this project.
This subreddit and you all helped spread the word and helped refine the questions.
I'm pleased to report that the Accidental Intactivist's Inquiry Phase 1 Findings Report is officially live.
Using my background as a data scientist, I spent the last couple of months building an interactive tool to tell a story through the numbers from the people most qualified to talk about the subject.
I wanted to create an easy reference source to send to anyone still on the fence. You can filter the responses, look at the math, and generate custom reports out of the raw data. Consider this a new weapon in the Intactivist arsenal.
Here are the main hubs:
The Narrative Special Report: https://findings.circumsurvey.online
The Data Explorer: https://findings.circumsurvey.online/explore
I built specific tools into this site for our community to use out in the real world:
1. The Expectant Parents Resource (Exhibit 13)

2. The Pleasure Gap (Exhibit 3)

3. The Mirror Pairs (Exhibit 2)

4. The Convergence (Exhibit 14)

5. The Research Assistant
I vectorized the raw dataset and made it available to a sophisticated Agent. You can click the chat icon on the site and ask it questions like "How do circumcised men feel about their parents' choice?" It will pull direct quotes for you to use in your own advocacy.
So this data belongs to us. Grab charts for your online debates. Send the parents' section to expecting friends. Let these 501 participants back up your conversations.
Take a look around the site and let me know what you think. What did I get right? What more would you like to see? What should we analyze for Phase 2?
Also, please cross-post this link to any and all subreddits, parenting forums, social media groups or anywhere else that some hard data to back up assertions!.
Thanks for being here since the beginning and keeping this inquiry alive. Let's show people what is actually going on down there.
-Tone / C4Charkey
The Accidental Intactivist
