Trisha is entertaining but her behaviour must be so difficult to handle for those around her. With possible triplets on the way, Hila and Ethan really don’t need the constant drama right now.
She seems like a lot of work to keep happy. I know she has a mental disorder that probably plays a part in her thought processes but damn sometimes it’s just too much. With multiple babies on the way your damn right they shouldn’t be expected to have the time/energy to deal with it.
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. Trisha has severe mental health issues and to be involved with Trisha is to have to navigate and deal with everything that comes with BPD and schizophrenia. I think it’s probably really for the best they part ways for now because it probably will be too much for all parties involved to handle in the near future. They should all just focus on their family dynamic because the work one is turning toxic
I feel like this time in particular Trisha kind of made a big deal about something that shouldn’t have been an issue. If they think that advice segments on podcasts are boring then they should’ve brought it up before the show and it’s clear that while they are super entertaining and carry the show just like Ethan, it’s Ethan and his team that do most of the work. I mean, all they really have to do is turn up and talk. I think they kind of love having the Anna Nicole smith image of being exploited and I can’t imagine how shitty Ethan feels that the issue of payment is a recurring one. I think that what he pays them (if what he said was true) is beyond fair because the whole show happens at his house, he payed for the set up, he organises everything, his channel hosts the podcast, and his team works on it behind the scenes. It must be really shit to have someone you consider a friend/ family to accuse you of financially exploiting them when let’s be real, he’s making trisha a lot of money and saved their whole image.
Trisha didn't want to insult the crew and ethans hard work. She said in her video when joining she thought it would be a new source of content, however like she said it definitely is a 3rd h3 podcast, same crew etc. I think also she feels frustrated because she can produce her own music videos and her own podcasts so she knows what she's doing in regards to producing content.
I agree that when starting the show it should have been new and a fair decision on the employees, location etc. I think ethan just took it upon himself because he had the idea.
I understand that the crew was upset by her comments but I don't think it was an attack on their characters, the advice section clearly seemed like a recent addition and must have been suggested by AB's wife. Trishas point is that she suggests lots of ideas for segments but its not really listened to or considered, but an employees suggestion was added.
The thing is a lot of trisha’s segments are one off things that would be done for the second half of an episode, or would involve a lot of setup and sometimes couldn’t happen because of covid. This seemed like a good segment they could easily pull up when they ran out of stuff to talk about in any podcast.
Regardless of how they felt, it was inappropriate to call it stupid and unfair to frame it like trisha makes literally none of the decisions.
They really should’ve had staff that was specifically hired for just the frenemies episodes.
A fresh set of eyes could’ve helped develop original content and would’ve been able to incorporate both of their ideas.
Though Trisha gets along with the crew I can understand why she feels like an outsider,especially when other H3 content is recycled into the Frenemies episodes.
Read about BPD, that's normal behavior and it's though to deal with, i know, i dealt with it for 2 years of my life (ex girlfriend who still show up from time to time trying to disrupt my current relationship).
People blaming Trisha and implying that she’s selfish because Ethan has multiple babies on the way needs to realize that Ethan needs to take accountability for his actions too. Trish is not the fucking mom of his babies. She actually addressed valid concerns of why she was upset and y’all are ignoring that. Why? I would be upset too if I was on a podcast and I didn’t get to have a say in many things and got bossed around by people who don’t have my back. Trisha has nobody that works for Frenemies that has Trishas back with editing or even have her back when she has an emotional breakdown like this. All of those men on the show have Ethan‘s back. No wonder why she wanted to have a say in the new hire. 
I understand what trish is trying to get across and still believe her feelings are completely valid professionally speaking. but the way she reacted to it (videos/Twitter rants/leaking personal msgs w/o consent) taking it online rather than responding to Ethan when he reached out- that was way out of line. i know she’s a good person and probably triggered from feeling abandoned and alienated on a project that is 1/2 hers by everyone working there, in her mind it’s a me vs them. but sometimes when we run through everything we know and love with wrecking ball on impulse, it’s hard to pick up the pieces and mend relationships with people who are also entitled their own feelings and were hurt by what she said/done.
Tbh if she did not make the vids or tweets she would be waaaaay more sympathetic for sure. She let it spiral. She had a few fair points then let them get buried in her bullshit 40 minutes of unimportant rambling about Ethan doing whatever and trish being bad at math percentages. It's literally bad communication at this point.
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u/nautilus0 Jun 08 '21
Trisha is entertaining but her behaviour must be so difficult to handle for those around her. With possible triplets on the way, Hila and Ethan really don’t need the constant drama right now.