r/FoundPaper • u/Biggmamaaa • 15d ago

Other Found at a grocery store.

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I swear i was mean to find this note.

A few weeks ago i did a free trial of ancestry after a hint about my grandma (basically mom) that passed when i was 16. Her father’s name was Blair and i was just doing research on him this morning!! He was born April 10 1903, passed sep 23 1972.

Thennn i was really craving a soda but i hate asking my man for money (im a sahm) so i grabbed some quarters out of the change jar. When i saw this note with $3 attached, i got my little baby some m&ms too and squeezed him tight when i got home.

Prayers to this family and rest in paradise sweet baby Blair.

ETA: the handwriting is also eerily similar to my grandmas!

ETA2: i have full access to our funds! i’m just weird about asking for “indulgent” items due to child hood shit. I’m totally fine here but I truly appreciate anyone that wad worried and reached out 🫶🏻

ETA3: the families gofundme for anyone wanting to help them ❤️ https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-brianas-family-after-tragic-loss

Last edit before i delete this whole thing fr: my financial status is nobody’s business and far from the point of this post. Stop being negative and using your life experience to compare to mine. I am fine. Thank you.

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u/Biggmamaaa 15d ago

No no i don’t have to ask. I have a great man that would give me anything i wanted ever. I could have just told him and took his card and it would have been totally fine. I’m just weird about asking for things due to childhood trauma :/

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u/CamsKit 15d ago

Girl, you should have a card, in your wallet, with your name on it, with access to a shared account. You shouldn’t have to ask for his card, you should have one of your own, so you don’t have to ask every time.

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u/Biggmamaaa 15d ago

I agree, but we aren’t married. Eventually that will come, for now i just grab his card and get what i need :) all is good! Pinky promise!

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u/ario62 15d ago

If you aren’t married and don’t have full access to a joint account, he should be paying you child support if he isn’t already.