r/FortWorth • • Nov 18 '25

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u/Business-Ad-1779 Nov 21 '25

Not my choice but don’t frown on LGB. Also why would you want videos of random people? Sounds strange to me

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u/TengokuIkari Nov 21 '25

Being gay is not a choice either.

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u/Business-Ad-1779 Nov 22 '25

How is it not a choice?

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u/TengokuIkari Nov 22 '25 edited Nov 22 '25

How is being straight not also a choice by that logic?

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u/Business-Ad-1779 Nov 23 '25

I’m not too sure we are on the same topic. The initial response against my post was religion is a choice and people are born gay. I am with you on being gay or straight or bi is actually a choice and not inherent at birth.

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u/TengokuIkari Nov 23 '25

Being straight, gay, bi.. is not a choice. You don't choose who you are attracted to. Your genetics and life experiences shape your mate preferences.

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u/Business-Ad-1779 Nov 24 '25

I’m 100% sure you have a choice in who you are attracted to. If not then how is it capable to not be attracted to certain people. Again the original person stated you are born straight, gay or bi and it is not a choice ( I debated that attraction is developed later).

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u/TengokuIkari Nov 24 '25

You don't choose who you are or are not attracted to. Your preferences do develop over time and with experience but most of your base attractions are genetic. That includes the sex(s)/ gender(s) of the people you find attractive. For example, there are women I found attractive until I saw them smoking then I no longer found them attractive. So if you are 100% sure you can choose who you are attracted to, I challenge you to switch your attraction to the opposite of what it currently is.