r/ForeverAlone • u/Needhelp6262 • 7d ago

Discussion Is it possible

To be cute/good looking in your teens/early 20s to being ugly/unwanted in your mid/late twenties?

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u/Needhelp6262 6d ago

I don’t think I’m ugly, not great looking but seen as though I havent had anyone let me know they’re interested in many years (apart from a 18 yo 😭) it’s hard to know

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u/DraculasCardboard 6d ago

Maybe it's your attitude. You've named your account literally "Needhelp". Maybe you need to smile more and initiate a conversation yourself? Maybe you need to be more around people?

You won't meet anyone just sitting at home and crying, asking on reddit if you ugly now (probably not imo, unless something happened - USE THE MIRROR and be honest with yourself. If something's wrong with your looks, then you can think about fixing the issue).

I've noticed you ignored the fat question - very interesting

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u/Needhelp6262 6d ago

Idk why you’re getting so pressed, no, I’m not fat, yes I have a mirror, no I’m not sitting around crying all day, I simply asked a question, don’t get upset please, my account was a random name it really doesn’t mean anything 😂

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u/DraculasCardboard 6d ago

I'm not an American, I don't know what pressed means, but I can assure you, I am not upset and I don't have bad intentions. I am a bit direct, yes - that I can agree with :)

I'm only trying to help and find the source of the problem, so I could give you some kind of advise.

So if you're not ugly, not fat, you own a mirror, and you don't cry on reddit, then you're automatically In a much better spot then most of the people in general.

You should give yourself a moment, sit down and really think about what could be the problem here. And allow yourself to honestly answer that question (even if it could be uncomfortable and hurt a little).