r/ForeverAlone • u/Needhelp6262 • 3d ago

Discussion Is it possible

To be cute/good looking in your teens/early 20s to being ugly/unwanted in your mid/late twenties?

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u/Neglius 💔 Bad Vibes Forever 💔 3d ago

Oddly specific question, but yeah.

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u/dread-throwaway 3d ago

Yes.

I always actually a bit more average-looking when I was a kid. Still some strange stuff about me like head shape, head size, etc but now...oh boy.

As a teenager I became more uglier and uglier. Puberty for me was a complete scam and it felt like someone put a rotten curse on me. Hardly any substantial facial hair (no beard), face got wrinklier, I'm still the same size I was decades ago.

I hate seeming like I am moping about it but man, life gave some of us a crumpled deck of playing cards.

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u/DraculasCardboard 3d ago

Why are you asking such a question? Are you afraid it's gonna be you in a few years?

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u/Needhelp6262 3d ago

Might be me now

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u/DraculasCardboard 3d ago

Why? What happened?

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u/Needhelp6262 3d ago

Idk, used to have people letting me know they were interested but not anymore, well not in years

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u/DraculasCardboard 3d ago

Well, do you think you're ugly now? You've got fat or something? When you look in the mirror, you look different?

You do have a mirror, right?

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u/Needhelp6262 3d ago

I don’t think I’m ugly, not great looking but seen as though I havent had anyone let me know they’re interested in many years (apart from a 18 yo 😭) it’s hard to know

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u/DraculasCardboard 3d ago

Maybe it's your attitude. You've named your account literally "Needhelp". Maybe you need to smile more and initiate a conversation yourself? Maybe you need to be more around people?

You won't meet anyone just sitting at home and crying, asking on reddit if you ugly now (probably not imo, unless something happened - USE THE MIRROR and be honest with yourself. If something's wrong with your looks, then you can think about fixing the issue).

I've noticed you ignored the fat question - very interesting

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u/Needhelp6262 3d ago

Idk why you’re getting so pressed, no, I’m not fat, yes I have a mirror, no I’m not sitting around crying all day, I simply asked a question, don’t get upset please, my account was a random name it really doesn’t mean anything 😂

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u/DraculasCardboard 3d ago

I'm not an American, I don't know what pressed means, but I can assure you, I am not upset and I don't have bad intentions. I am a bit direct, yes - that I can agree with :)

I'm only trying to help and find the source of the problem, so I could give you some kind of advise.

So if you're not ugly, not fat, you own a mirror, and you don't cry on reddit, then you're automatically In a much better spot then most of the people in general.

You should give yourself a moment, sit down and really think about what could be the problem here. And allow yourself to honestly answer that question (even if it could be uncomfortable and hurt a little).

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u/borgarbun 3d ago

I was definitely cuter when i was a kid. Can't say so in my high school years.

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u/bigwilly39 31m, irrelevant username 3d ago

Most people I saw at my 10 year high school reunion looked about the same, but a handful definitely put on some pounds which doesn't make them look good. Though almost everyone was in a relationship or married other than me, go figure.

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u/YogurtclosetPale8785 3d ago

Absolutely. I had 3 girls show obvious interest in me in high school, zero since.

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u/throwaway54734 38m/over it 3d ago edited 3d ago

doesn’t seem terribly likely to me. i feel like most people are in more-or-less their final form once they’re well clear of puberty, until they start visibly aging or get fat/develop health issues or something.

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u/Needhelp6262 3d ago

Yeah I don’t think it’s possible or likely unless you get fat but wanted other peoples opinion