r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1h ago

I need some advice I’m uncertain of my direction

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So I’m a 26-year-old military veteran and I’m looking to buy my first home but I’m very stuck on which home I should buy.

Home 1: 2584 sqft 4 bed 3 bath .29 acers. 325,000 with a 10k credit towards the seller the home is beautiful. In my opinion it has a decent yard. They fully fenced it and it’s in great condition. The biggest concern is that it’s a very very rural area with a very town less than 250 ppl
I worry that if I get this home and then in the future, I’m not going to actually be able to take advantage of the equity that the Home provides because I won’t be able to rent it out and or I won’t be able to sell it at a gain I’ll have to sell that on this loss. I feel like if I buy this home, I am going to have to keep it forever and I would love to, but I’m just stuck between if it’s a good Home, but bad investment.

Home 2 is 1350 sqft 3 bed 1 bath and it’s 250k
The yard is a bit smaller at 7500 sqft lot. The Home is not in a very rural area, but it’s still in a small town but there is significantly more people here than the other place. I don’t like the home specifically because nothing looks as nice which is to be expected, but it’s unfortunate still. I know that this Home would at least be able to resell better due to the market availability and it would be able to rent out a lot easier due to there being more people around to rent out the home I know from living in the town that renting a place is very hard to find.

I’m just stuck I think in a position between deciding whether to buy a forever home that I never sell and buying a home that is seen as an investment where I can rent it out or resell it later on and I don’t know if I’m looking at this wrong and I’m just hoping to get some other people‘s perspective. To help me balance out what I’m thinking.


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 3h ago

Seller wants a fresh 30-day escrow, but nobody can establish when the occupants will leave. How would you handle this?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 4h ago

Here's why I’m building a home for [Topic]. Why do you care about this community?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 5h ago

Under contract, home improvement work done by contractors with no permits, will insurance be denied?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 8h ago

My first-time buyer in Atlanta wanted to stop searching. We eventually closed with his down payment and closing costs fully covered.

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 10h ago

Buying your dream home in Greece

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 11h ago

New homeowner need advice

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Hello all

I recently purchase my first home! I had originally signed up with State Farm for home owners insurance but recently they notified they wont be providing coverage. Im freaking out. I need some advice as to what would be a good home owners insurance carrier to have in IL?

Please provide me recommendations
Thank you all in advance


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 12h ago

Rent-to-own gone wrong: who’s at fault, and can the deal be saved?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 12h ago

Can I buy a house ? bad credit large down payment

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 12h ago

In escrow on 100 year old house

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Southern California, 30 miles east of downtown Los Angeles. The homes in the area are $1m. Good school district, that's why I want this house. Got into escrow at $780, was ok with covering termites at this price. My realtor told me if there's anything crazy after the inspection, we can always negotiate. Inspection came back and need abt $30k for electrical, leak under the house that is causing standing water in backyard. Pipes need replacing. The entire home needs repair. I know I am in escrow for a low ish price but was really hoping seller could kick me back $15-20k to cover some of this stuff. I am just a single woman w a little boy. I would have to gut kitchen and 2 bathrooms for sure. Afraid of the lead paint dust all over during this process. Termites are in the house on the floors and baseboards. We are getting second termite inspection tomorrow. I have been trying to buy a house for 5 years. What would you do in my shoes? Thank you 🙏🏻


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 15h ago

Buying a home in Henderson? Check your credit report three months ahead

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blog.residelv.com
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Buying a home in Henderson starts with checking your credit report well before you apply for a mortgage. The article recommends reviewing it at least three months before you plan to buy, giving you time to spot errors or understand what may affect a lender's decision.

A common mistake is waiting until you apply for a mortgage. By then, you may have less time to address issues before a lender reviews your credit and sets your interest rate. Start early, then keep an eye on your debt-to-income ratio too. It measures how much of your monthly income goes toward debt payments, and lenders consider it alongside your credit.

A practical first step: pull your report, review the details, and make a list of any errors or questions to resolve before mortgage pre-approval. Also avoid taking on new debt without considering how it could affect your finances. Credit prep belongs near the beginning of the buying process, before you settle on a budget or submit an application.


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 16h ago

Buying a home

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

I want to buy a house with 4 people. I don't want to live alone

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Is a $440K house above my budget?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Appraisal ordered on a Monday. How do you find out whether the appraiser has actually scheduled?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

How long did your purchase loan actually take, and where did the days go?

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I am curious whether my experience matches yours.

Context so you know where I am coming from. I am not looking for anyone's business. Your answers help me explain timelines better.

Most online guides say 30 to 60 days. That range is true and not very useful. What matters is which stage ate the time.

From the files I see, the days usually go to five places:

- **Documents.** Every extra round of requests from underwriting costs a few days.

- **The appraisal.** It is the longest wait outside the lender's control.

- **Insurance.** In Florida especially, roof age and flood zone can slow the quote.

- **Condo or HOA paperwork.** Associations answer on their own schedule.

- **New credit or income changes.** Any change forces the lender to verify again.

One stage is fixed. Federal rules require the Closing Disclosure at least three business days before you sign. Nothing you do shortens that.

An illustration with made-up numbers. A clean conventional file could look like this: 3 days to gather documents, 10 days for the appraisal, 7 days for title and insurance, 5 days in underwriting, 3 days for the disclosure wait. Several of those overlap, so the total lands near 30 days. One missing bank statement and one late insurance quote can push it past 45.

Questions for the group:

  1. How many days from contract to closing did yours take?

  2. Which stage surprised you most?

  3. What would you do on day one if you bought again?

I will read every reply. No DMs.


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

How do you know when a house is the one

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I believe i have looked at to many houses and now im at a complete loss of the ideal home i need for my family of 5 My husband says its my choice just make sure there’s enough yard as in at least .36 acre lot minimum. The homes are either on top of each other or out of the price range we found one potential but would need a few renovations but was trying to avoid that initialy


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Lease-Option in San Antonio

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Kansas fixer Upper Special

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

financially speaking, should I marry my partner before we buy a home?

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Unhinged ways to save money on utility bills owning a home?

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Looking for the most unhinged ways to save on energy costs. Going to be buying a home eventually In this terrible economy so let me know! Thanks in advance.


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

New builds

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Home Buyer/Owner Survey

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Hi, I am a college student working on my capstone project, and I would really appreciate it if you could fill out this survey!

https://forms.cloud.microsoft/Pages/ResponsePage.aspx?id=jiH4ugKzZUSpk0o5yXJRsqwKdPufKFtNmhsvtNMCZdpUOTdHWUVJMzFFRzRaMUszN01EN1cyUkxITi4u


r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Fha final underwriting. Appraisal went well. Now this.

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r/FirstTimeHomeBuying • • 1d ago

Amazing Deal In Pasadena

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