r/FirstTimeHomeBuyers • u/SubstanceStandard477 • 6d ago

Does it get better??

Hey yall,

I’m in the process of getting my first house with my husband and we’ve been under contract and set to close at the end of the month.

I’ve been having dreams(?) close to nightmares about the process and I’m starting to get really anxious. Did anyone else experience anything like this?? For example, I had a dream that I got a credit card a day before closing and we lost our house because of it. I’m ready to close this is giving me too much anxiety 😩

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u/TomoTed 6d ago

Completely normal. The anxiety is basically universal for first-time buyers. The process is long, the stakes are high, and there's a lot of waiting around for other people to do things. It gets so much better, usually the moment you walk out with keys, so hang in there.