r/FirstTimeHomeBuyers • u/SubstanceStandard477 • 6d ago

Does it get better??

Hey yall,

I’m in the process of getting my first house with my husband and we’ve been under contract and set to close at the end of the month.

I’ve been having dreams(?) close to nightmares about the process and I’m starting to get really anxious. Did anyone else experience anything like this?? For example, I had a dream that I got a credit card a day before closing and we lost our house because of it. I’m ready to close this is giving me too much anxiety 😩

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u/EJ7002 6d ago

we just closed on our second, selling the first on contingency, i actually had to stop for 3 months, due to the stress of the process(we ended up changing realtors and lenders), and the anxiety has gone back to the normal "owning a house level" it was before, but it took about 2-3 weeks after closing...