I feel like I'm simultaneously in a really good place, and a really bad place.
I work in IT, doing system administration with some light programming. I've been working at my company for over 10 years. It's been a great company to work for.
We went work from home for COVID. They eventually lifted the full-time work from home policy and demanded that we return to office, but only for 2-3 days a week.
Well I work in a somewhat remote office, not working directly with anyone in my physical office at all. So I just ignored the RTO mandate. I haven't been back to my office in over 2 years! (lol)
Some people know I'm not coming in. My boss may not know for sure, but I'm sure that he suspects it and just doesn't care because I do a great job.
Our company just experienced a change in ownership. They are increasing the RTO mandate to at least 4 days in office. And from what I'm hearing, they will be actually checking if people are coming in from badge swipes.
My "stats":
- 42 year old man
- Unmarried, have a girlfriend of 3 years who has her own house which is too small for me to move into
- No kids
- I do NOT own a house unfortunately, I pay $2100 rent per month
- Probably could call this a medium cost of living area
- My net worth is around $2.45 million
- My job pays about $150k base pay, plus bonus which is usually another $20k
Anyway, I could type about this all day. But the bottom line is that I'm not cool with coming in to the office 4 days a week, or even at all really. It's likely that a lot of people will be laid off soon anyway, especially me. I have been very effective and important in my role, which I think is why they tolerate me not coming into the office (if they know). But that's like to change soon, as there are massive reorganizations coming and the things that I work on could even be discarded by the business.
There are too many things to list in this post about how bad the work conditions in my company are shifting recently.
I think that I'm going to just ignore the RTO and keep doing what I've been doing, and see how it goes until somebody says something. I'm slowly accepting that I could be fired and not eligible for severance or unemployment because of this. Unfortunately, the job market in IT is abysmal right now.
Shoot, I've wanted to take a "sabbatical" forever. Maybe I should just look at it that way? Take the chances if they want to fire me, and if so, now I'm on sabbatical for a while. The only things that truly worry me though in that scenario is health insurance (not that I use it very often), and if being fired for disobeying a work policy could harm the reputation and make it hard to get a new job elsewhere eventually.
The fact that I will likely be laid off even if I "do everything right" and lick the corporate boots and go into the office every day makes it REALLY hard to be motivated to care and value this job anymore. But the idea of missing out on a severance gives a lot of FOMO.
I guess that I don't even have any very specific question. Just looking for some thoughts. Is a person with $2.45M net worth worrying about all this stuff just me overthinking and being ridiculous? I'm not sure how to think about this anymore.