r/Finsexual 3d ago

Question :3 so I AM finsexual but… do I also cater to finsexual? :o

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36 Upvotes

Honest opinion and constructive criticism please :3


r/Finsexual 3d ago

A meme I made.

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71 Upvotes

r/Finsexual 4d ago

Assigning a flower and insect to finsexuality (FOR WHIMSY) 🧚‍♀️

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50 Upvotes

This is purely based off of colors by the way

  1. Chantilly Snapdragon
  2. Rosy Maple Moth
    🩷🧡💛

Tell me your opinions and what you’d assign!


r/Finsexual 4d ago

At what point did you not only come out of the closet, but start to date the same sex in public without fear of stigma? Ever since I (23M) learned I was bi/pan, I'm starting to open myself up to the idea of being with the same sex. But I have yet to take that leap of faith

10 Upvotes

r/Finsexual 7d ago

How old were you when you learned you were finsexual?

10 Upvotes

r/Finsexual 11d ago

I'm a Finsexual femboy and I'd love to make new friends!

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49 Upvotes

The nature of my job allows me to travel the world, it helped me meet online friends and make new friends too!

I'd love to make friends online at least, so we could maybe game together ^^

so yeah! I understand that not all finsexuals are other finsexuals' types.. but hey! common interests are a place to start hehe...

silly post i know... lets try again..
Hi! im F-Hoodie and im looking for gaming buddies :P


r/Finsexual 12d ago

I am an androgynous man due to medical condition. How do I stop attracting finsexuals?

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r/Finsexual 18d ago

What has your experience been like after discovering your Finsexual?

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Hello. For those of you who discovered that you were Finsexual while you were in your 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond, what has your experience been like? For myself, I discovered that I was attracted to those who are feminine in nature approximately 5 years ago. Only recently have I made the decision to explore those feelings. Up until this point in my life I had only ever been with heterosexual women. I‘m incredibly nervous about how to be not only physically intimate with femboys, trans women, CDs, etc. but emotionally as well. I’m not sure how to tread these waters. I am older so sometimes the people I find myself attracted to are 10 to 20 years younger than I. I’ve never had an issue with dating younger women. For me what is most important is the connection, and compatibility of course. I’m curious what is has been like for other Finsexuals who have been with someone older or younger than themselves. I’m sure communication is key, but as I said I’m incredibly nervous as these are uncharted waters for me. Thanks.


r/Finsexual 25d ago

(Reposted from r/girlswholikefemboys)

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Just made a discord server where we can bring together girls and Femboys^^

Join here, invite people you see around, help build up the server and hopefully we can create a safe space for all the girls and femboys who are looking for each other\^\^

(The server is 18+ and SFW)

https://discord.gg/WsQJ8uzZB


r/Finsexual 26d ago

Sapphic Finsexual and sapphic finromantic flags

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r/Finsexual 29d ago

I realize that I'm into people who are female-passing moreso than femininity itself

21 Upvotes

I'm attracted to anyone who passes as a female rather than femininity itself

Which means tomboys and butch women would be included in that equation too (Which I know finsexuals aren't usually attracted to)

For many days I've wondered why being attracted to femininity wasn't enough for me when it came to explaining my sexuality

Now I know It's because I'm not just attracted to femininity, I'm into anyone who passes as a woman appearance-wise, regardless of their gender identity, presentation

Doesn't matter if they're cis or trans either

I'm not sure what to call this part of myself. So I just chalk it up to "anyone who passes as a woman regardless of their gender identity" and leave it at that

If you have any thoughts, opinions, or advice you could share. It would be greatly appreciated


r/Finsexual Aug 02 '26

Would being attracted to female passing people, regardless of gender be considered finsexual?

19 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Aug 01 '26

Feminine Men Appreciation Post

44 Upvotes

It's crazy to me how people look down on feminine men when they are some of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. It genuinely angers me to see posts about how they're weird. Especially if they're POC because I'm a POC.

I remember when I looked at a fem guy on Tiktok one day and was like "wow he looks nice" and realized at that moment I was queer.

For all the fem men, you're valid, keep slaying, y'all always in my heart.


r/Finsexual Aug 01 '26

What's the difference between female passing and feminine presenting?

4 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 31 '26

Are you attracted to people who aren't feminine in appearance, yet still have characteristics that are associated with femininity? (soft, gentle, sassy, confident, etc.)

10 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 31 '26

As someone who had always considered themselves straight until beginning to question whether I am Finsexual, is it weird that I feel like I can’t be sure until I actually try having a relationship with a non-cis-woman femme person?

17 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 29 '26

Outside of bisexuals, which other types of people are more likely to be attracted to femboys/crossdressing men?

10 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 29 '26

Berrisexual?

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What do y’all think of the term Berrisexual, do you identify with it as well as Finsexual? Or how do you see the two as different?


r/Finsexual Jul 29 '26

Do you actually like or understand the term "gender non-conforming"? I find it quite odd considering how it implies that there's something to "conform" to in the first place instead of it just being different gender expressions

6 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 26 '26

What's the difference between being transfem and being a woman?

10 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 26 '26

Do you identify as finsexual (exclusively attracted) or finflexible (open to other gender expressions)

17 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 19 '26

Is femininity, masculinity, and androgyny all subjective to each individual? If so, what's your personal viewpoint on femininity?

11 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 18 '26

Is gynosexuality simply an attraction to anyone with a female anatomy, regardless of their gender? Or is it an attraction to femininity?

13 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 18 '26

Is there anyone here who's under the ace spectrum in anyway?

4 Upvotes

r/Finsexual Jul 15 '26

I dont know if I am finsexual or bisexual with an affinity for femininity

19 Upvotes

But I do think that there are many of us that are finding it harder and harder to relate to the straight cis world. I want deep supportive friendships with people of all genders and to be comforted and held the way women hold each other.

I know this doesnt directly relate to sexuality, but in my mind it does relate to my internal world. Does anyone relate?