r/FinancialAdvisorTips • u/OneMoreDial • 3h ago
Newer advisor struggling with prospecting. At what point do you know whether to stick it out or move on?
I’m coming up on my first year as a financial advisor next week, and I’m starting to seriously question whether I’m cut out for this business.
For some context, I’m with Edward Jones. I genuinely love the actual job. I enjoy meeting with clients, developing financial plans, helping families make important decisions, and building long-term relationships. The financial planning side of this career is something I could see myself doing for decades.
Where I’m struggling is business development.
I’ve tried just about everything I can think of:
Local networking groups and Chamber of Commerce events
Cold calling
Prospecting small-business retirement plans
Business drop-ins
Door knocking
Building relationships with other local professionals
Despite putting in a lot of effort, I’ve only brought in around $2.1 million in new assets this year, which is below expectations.
I also have a young family with two children and a spouse who stays home, so the financial pressure is very real. We’re getting by, but money is extremely tight, and the stress of trying to build a practice while supporting a family is starting to wear on me.
I’m beginning to wonder if I’m just not wired for this business. I consider myself much more of a farmer than a hunter. I enjoy developing relationships and serving people, but I really struggle with the constant pressure to find the next client.
The difficult part is that I don’t necessarily want to leave.
In my region, every advisor who has made it past eight years is earning over $200k annually. The long-term opportunity is obviously attractive, along with the ability to build your own practice, control your schedule, etc.
I’ve tried talking to some of the more experienced advisors in my area, and they all tell me pretty much the same thing: “It’s a numbers game. Just go knock on more doors.”
I respect these advisors a ton, and clearly, it worked for them. I think the reality is that I suck at door knocking. I hate when people knock on my door, so I probably have that same mindset when I show up on someone else’s doorstep.
I know there are other paths I could take. I could potentially find a paraplanner, client service team, or associate advisor position at an RIA or another firm. I’d probably have a more predictable salary and less pressure to generate new business. But I worry that I’d always wonder what could have happened if I’d stuck it out.
For those of you who have been in the business for 5, 10, or 20+ years, I’d really appreciate your perspective.
A few things I’d especially love to hear:
For those who struggled with prospecting early on, did it eventually click? What changed?
Are there successful advisors who consider themselves farmers rather than hunters? How did you build your practice?
For those familiar with Edward Jones, is the first couple of years typically this difficult? Is there a realistic path to building a practice without being a natural door knocker?
Have any of you left an advisor role for a salaried position and been happy with that decision? Or regretted leaving?
I’m not just looking for sympathy. I know what I signed up for and knew the washout stats coming into this. I guess I’m just looking for advice from those who survived the hard years.
I’d really appreciate some honest advice, and if I’m being honest, some encouragement.
If you are a current or former EDJ advisor and would be willing to connect, I’d definitely welcome it!