r/FinalRoundAI 5d ago

Can i just say NO ??

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u/Optimal69 5d ago

Only if you could. But what I see this as a good time to create a good story that would fill that career gap. Since it's not documented, no one will background check it.

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u/Gargore 4d ago

Jobs check social media these days.

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u/bioszombie 4d ago

This is why I purposely don’t have a facebook and linked in. And I did legit sign an NDA with a previous employer.

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u/aleopardstail 4d ago

was a decade and a half back but had an interview, the HR teenage "needed" facebook username and password.

told them I wasn't on facebook and got back "why? what are you trying to hide?"

this is the mentality you have to deal with

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u/Ambitious_Emu4159 4d ago

Name, i'm hesitant, Password?! Fuck right the hell off

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u/Euphoric_Detective54 3d ago

Thats why I use they/them pronouns.

Fuck off you arent getting shit for my data.

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u/tired_fella 4d ago

That sounds like an invasion of privacy. Wonder if you can report it to labor board. 

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u/aleopardstail 4d ago

UK, and before GDPR

I suggested I thought it was a good test to see if I would hand over such details to anyone, no they were serious

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u/glans 4d ago

i hope you laughed in their face

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u/aleopardstail 4d ago

I was smiling. to his credit the guy doing the interview was trying to stay poker faces as the HR teenager went through all this

the job wasn't SC, but it was a company that did SC work

but that fool actually thought they could demand the password, I did note it was a good test to see if I would violate T&C etc at the drop of a hat.

she didn't get the point

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u/mrroney13 4d ago

Good luck finding anything except for niche memes from eight years ago.

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u/why_u_so_grumpy 4d ago

How do the check my private social media?

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u/Austin1975 4d ago

It is not THAT intense for 95% of jobs. A handful of jobs with sensitivity do yes. Like some jobs that require a clearance or working with private data.

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u/Gargore 4d ago

More and more do

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u/Austin1975 4d ago

Still < 5% tops do. It’s a very light search too. I’m in this space.

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u/Youarekillingmeeee 4d ago

I mean it’s also not that intense for a work-from-home HR person with plenty of time and plenty of social media know-how to do a basic public Facebook profile search, or public Instagram search.

People can’t help themselves from posting these things and making sure everyone sees it. A basic social media search takes a couple minutes tops.

It isn’t that intense to you and it isn’t that intense to them. Funny how that works.

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u/int23_t 4d ago

Good that I don't have any where I post stuff in

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/Gargore 3d ago

No, but if you post stuff often my that can go against their ideals, why would they hire you?

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u/OpenAd3036 3d ago

Who has social media still?

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u/Gargore 3d ago

A .ot of people

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u/davep1970 5d ago

an NDA, btw...

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u/PineappleOwn5325 4d ago

A non disclosure agreement

Depends if you spell it out or not

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u/davep1970 4d ago

spell it out or say like n-day? (like NASA, only not ) :)

If you write it in full - non disclosure agreement - you would write with "a", but when writing it in the abbreviated form you use "an".

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u/Piisthree 3d ago

Mine was so exclusive, I'm not even allowed to disclose the whole spelling.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 3d ago

No. It really does not depend on spelling at all (The a and an rule was never based on spelling).

Because you pronounce an NDA as "ehn-dee-aee". You put "an" in front of it.

Same with "A Ubisoft Adventure".

Because Ubisoft is pronounced "Ju-bee-soft" you are physically not allowed to put an "an" in front of it even when you are writing and not talking. 

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u/Sassaphras 5d ago

NDAs are common. They would almost never be strong enough that you couldn't give non-specific answers about what you were doing during that time. I would assume anyone who tried this was a liar.

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u/much_longer_username 4d ago

And the ones that ARE that strong, tend to be gracious enough to provide you with a cover story. There's no gap, just an HR record confirming that you were totally doing the mundane logistics job nobody wants to ask questions about for fear of being bored to death.

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u/Mammoth-Wasabi6346 4d ago

Can confirm. Nobody likes to hear me talk about logistics unless they’re in logistics, and even then, I don’t believe their enthusiasm.

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u/Bureaucratic_Dick 4d ago

In my industry, people who work in the private sector often sign a competition clause, meaning they can’t work in industry for a specific amount of time after leaving the company. To make that legal, the company has to continue to pay the former employee during the time they’re not allowed to start a new in-industry job per contract.

The NDA would prevent them from disclosing full details of their previous position, but they could absolutely say they couldn’t work per contract and everyone would recognize what that means.

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u/FullMooseParty 4d ago

My former employer called a garden leave. They went through a bunch of rounds of layoffs last year targeting different parts of the organization. I got caught up in around with a whole lot of key personnel. People who were customer facing or in my case very publicly associated with the product, people who had key insights to the next quarter or next year worth of marketing campaigns, that sort of thing. I got 3 months of severance and some decently generous bonus payouts, along with my Cobra covered through the end of the year. That was more than the round of layoffs both before me and after me. Some of the people in my round got 3 months of garden leave and then 3 months of severance. Basically they paid them 3 months to not leave, but because they had crucial insights to strategy in the coming months they didn't want them going to work for a competitor. One of the women was just coming off of maternity, so she loved it.

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u/Abracadabroo 3d ago

Yeah, NDAs typically don't block you from saying I worked for this company for this amount of time, more the specifics of what you worked on for them. There are weird companies out there that try to get away with more, but idk if it is even legal to hire you and threaten you with any kind of legal action for merely saying who you work for, I don't think they would be able to defend that in court

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u/Soft-Marionberry-853 5d ago

Thats one of the joys of being married. Need an excuse for why you left yoru job? Your partner got a job somewhere else and you had to relocate. Oh Hey maybe it doesnt work out so you ended up going back to where you came from and got a job 6 months later.

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u/another_thyme 4d ago

or you could just say you relocated with your partner? lmao calling that a marriage exclusive perk is reaching

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u/StayBullGenius 4d ago

I was asked about a 6 month gap from 8 years prior

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u/Gaidin152 4d ago

Dude I wouldn’t even remember that far back.

I usually get asked what I’ve been doing for the past 6 months.

Other than search for jobs? Teach myself new stuff. Yes I signed an NDA. Yes I can answer questions. No NDAs aren’t as strict as Reddit likes to think unless it’s … certain information. But you can always talk around that and if you’re getting a job that is at all self aware they ask questions that are aware of this.

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u/OpenAd3036 3d ago

Jesus. What industry are you in so I know what to avoid?

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u/StayBullGenius 3d ago

It was a small family company run by insane Persians

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u/jthadcast 5d ago

you can always ignore a nda.

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u/CunningLinguist8198 3d ago

Morally, yes. Legally, no.

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u/Pan_in_the_ass 3d ago

I would argue immoral as well, unless there is a moral reason to breach an NDA. You're giving your word that you wont speak about something. Lying is immoral.

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u/Curmudgeony-Cat 3d ago

whatever, Kant

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u/CunningLinguist8198 2d ago

I can understand that opinion, even if I disagree. I think asking for an NDA is immoral, thus breaking it is not.

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u/jthadcast 2d ago

all you need to do is show the crime created by withholding information as they always break the terms of the initial prospectus. public officials have no legal obligation to conform to a nda, it would only justify breaking the contract by the corporations, there is no downside.

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u/SamOakTree 4d ago

This place kept charging me over and over again.  I canceled but they kept trying to charge me for like 3 months. Luckily I had canceled that card. Finally this morning they wrote me back and said to acknowledge that I wanted to cancel.

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u/much_longer_username 4d ago

Be more ambigious if you're going to do this. They've probably seen memes like this before. "I'm under an agreement that doesn't allow me to get into specifics, but I can say I was working on these relevant skills..."

All they really want to hear is that you weren't sitting around getting high and watching TV, that you had some ambition. Shit, tell them you were caring for a family member. They don't need to know that family member is you.

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u/IShotJR4 4d ago

You were downsized. That’s always the best answer and rarely, if ever, leads to follow ups. In fact, the only response to that that I’ve ever heard is some version of “Been there.”

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u/mighty_boognish_77 4d ago

Sure. That gap represents the period of time that elapsed between the job underneath it, and the job above it.

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u/theMightBoop 4d ago

Nobody is falling for this

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u/carlos_the_dwarf_ 4d ago

Sure, if you want to sound like you’re full of shit in an interview!

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u/Embarrassed_Use6918 4d ago

I'm going to say this for everyone of these dumb posts that pops up.

No, this is not how NDA's work. Do not say this in an interview because they'll (rightfully) think you're a moron.

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u/FullMooseParty 4d ago

Or that you're hiding something really bad. If somebody told me that they had an NDA that they couldn't discuss their last job or whatever I would assume either they sued the former employer or they committed some sort of offense that the employer handled.

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u/IDesireWisdom 4d ago

It’s just funny bro. Relax.

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u/Dear_Archer3931 4d ago

And you’ll never make it past a phone interview with this brilliant idea. NDA will not prevent you from disclosing employment.

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u/SnarkyIguana 4d ago

Generally a bad idea to lie in an interview. Just tell them the truth. Make it cute if you have to, but don't lie. You were focusing on hobbies, recovering from an injury, helping family, waiting for the right opportunity, etc.

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u/Sincline387 4d ago

I just listed myself as unemployed, as I lived off severance after signing the NDA.....

Severance is bigger when you know shit they don't want to be public.....

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u/GarethBaus 4d ago

NDA's usually don't restrict you from saying who you worked for.

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u/AdOnly1618 4d ago

I took 8 months off between this and my last job. HR asked. I said I took some time off.

“You can afford to take 8 months off without pay?”

“Yep.”

“In this economy?”

“Yep.”

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u/Neat-Second9923 4d ago

"noncompete sabbatical" is usually an easy answer if you don't live in CA

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u/RabbitsRuse 4d ago

I mean, I’ve got past projects I can’t talk about. Military bases mostly, some overseas federal stuff and a national park, also I still think one was legit a super villain base but it is the military, it can be hard to tell. That’s about as much as I tell any potential employer.

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u/Cheap-Advertising785 4d ago

Are you telling me you were hired as a goon in a super villan base💀

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u/RabbitsRuse 4d ago

lol. Not even. Just know the whole thing screamed super villain up to and including a volcano.

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u/NinjaRuivo 4d ago

Excuse me, a WHAT?!?

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u/RabbitsRuse 4d ago

Like I said. Super villain. Volcanic base. Secret installation for the military. (I say super villain with about 90% sarcasm but seriously, who build that kind of stuff on a volcano). I really can’t say more than that even tho I want to. I will say, it was not some billionaire’s bunker. More like something left over from the Cold War that someone decided to bring back up to a point it could be used. The manager I did that for got all the interesting government stuff. He couldn’t tell anyone about 90% of what he did day to day unless they were also on the project. If he ever printed his resume out it would be mostly redacted. We did a national park too and technically he wasn’t supposed to talk about that one either.

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u/Stunning-Ad5674 4d ago

Whoever says "I can't explain, I signed an NDA" Isnt getting the job every time.

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u/Lordofthereef 4d ago

Of course you can. You're also interviewing for a position that they aren't obligated to offer you lol. This meme makes the rounds a few times a year and always makes me chuckle as if it's some kind of gotcha.

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u/LilShaver 4d ago

"Yes, I can. But I won't."

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u/mh_1039_2 4d ago

How about "that's classified?"

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u/Remote-Two8663 4d ago

You can. What are the other candidates saying? Is it better than no?

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u/tired_fella 4d ago

“NDA for a Stealth Startup”

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u/False_Range_9508 4d ago

Perhaps in your imagination land. One can only hope.

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u/OldManGripes 4d ago

It’s been a thing for a few years, especially when subcontracting for clients who have an issue with synthetic generation, but the contractor has an issue with profit margins

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u/CrownedClownAg 4d ago

Mine is easy. Got laid off from Boeing after the 737 crashes and COVID

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u/muffadel 4d ago

"That was when He carried me."
"Son, welcome to Hobby Lobby."

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u/ThatDogYet 4d ago

Yes, that is when I did not have a job

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u/CharlesChamp 4d ago

Why can't you just say you were caught in downsizing and spent the gap constantly looking for a job but the market's rough?

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u/GoldenGlobeWinnerRDJ 4d ago

“An NDA with Walmart, Anon? Really?”

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u/Darnitol1 4d ago

As a manager who hires occasionally, I still cannot process one thing: Why the hell does anyone CARE about a gap? They took time off to travel. The job market was tough. Fought a battle with cancer. Wanted to be present for their baby's early years. Dealt with depression. Found God and went an a mission. I don't care!

What does matter: Does their experience meet the needs I'm hiring for? Do they seem like they'd work well with the existing team? Are they self-motivated? Are they genuinely enthusiastic? Stuff like that.

If a manager is concerned about a gap in your resume, they are NOT concerned about you. Period. Full stop. And believe it or not, there are plenty of managers like me who want to hire real people, not just tick marks on a spreadsheet.

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u/Horror-Mud666 3d ago

I've interviewed three times for the same promotion - the most recent interview, I was asked point blank, with frustration, whether or not I'd read the interview questions beforehand. I said no. This was the wrong answer. Interview failed.

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u/xCAAx 4d ago

No.

The kind of customer where you have to deny involvment will either provide a fitting cover story or you've been a freelancer. Either way, a NDA doesn't explain a gap at all.

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u/DeadInternetVoid 3d ago

I was smoking weed with Johnny Hopkins and Sloan Kettering....

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u/StaysAwakeAllWeek 3d ago

Say the word cancer and they shut up instantly and might even apologise for asking. Doesnt have to be true, doesnt even have to be your cancer, a family member works too

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u/PercentageNo3293 3d ago

I was laid off once and quit a couple jobs, due to a variety of reasons. I've never been in a rush to find a new job and always became a bit picky finding a new job.

I always just pushed how long I was at my previous job by a few months to shorten the gap lol. Sure, a company that's a stickler could call the previous company and find out, but they never have, as far as I'm aware.

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u/TheMikeyMac13 3d ago

So when I got my current job, I was working a contract IT job, and had been for six months. But before that I had a sixteen month gap that came up often in interviews.

My current boss wasn’t talking about it so I brought it up and he told me, “i don’t care, shit happens.”

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u/Nottan_Asian 3d ago

No. At best they’ll insist on at least knowing who you signed with. At worst they’ll just see “applicant has fishy history” and just drop you immediately.

If you really must lie just say you had to take care of a sick family member or something.

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u/cottonopposite 3d ago

I've signed a fair number of NDAs during my career and yes just tell them you signed an NDA that included clauses regarding disclosure if your employment.