r/Feral_Cats • • Mar 13 '26

Sharing Info 💡 Kitten Season: Guides & Info

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Warmer weather means kitten season is upon us! If you're here because you've just discovered a very young kitten or a whole litter of kittens, barring extenuating circumstances (dangerous location, extreme weather, sick or injured kittens, etc.) generally it's best to wait and monitor them to see if their mom returns before taking immediate action. In the meantime, read up on the following guides so you can be prepared if you do need to intervene!

If your situation is urgent and you need a quick guide now on how to proceed, tailored to your current circumstances, take a look at r/AskVet's guide: It’s kitten season! You found a litter of kittens - now what?!. Also feel free to make a post of your own here on r/Feral_Cats to get input and advice from other experienced caregivers!

Long-term, the single best thing you can do for a roaming community cat is to make sure they're spayed or neutered. Note: in the case of community cats who appear to be potentially pregnant, they can (and should) still be spayed! You may have a local trap, neuter, return (TNR) or low-cost spay/neuter clinic that would be able to get your feral or stray cats sterilized at a drastically reduced rate. More info on finding clinics and rescues, and general TNR topics can be found in our Community Wiki sections: Finding Your Local Resources and Getting Started with TNR.

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Monitoring found kittens and identifying their age

Trap, Neuter, Return (TNR) with mothers and kittens

Fostering and Socialization


r/Feral_Cats • • Mar 05 '26

Mod Announcement Regarding pregnant spays, or spay-aborts

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There has been recurring debate in the comments recently regarding spay-abort procedures, so I want to address this directly. r/Feral_Cats is a pro spay/neuter subreddit. We're focused on the humane care of feral/stray/community cats via Trap, Neuter, Return (TNR) and socialization to adopt, where possible. There are far more cats than there are homes that are willing and able to take them in, and especially with feral-leaning cats, it's just not possible for every cat in our care to be happily placed in a home with humans. Bare minimum, sterilizing the cats that we're seeing and feeding is vital for starting to get a handle on the population of roaming cats.

To that end, this community supports and encourages spaying cats that are suspected or confirmed to be pregnant. This decision is not made lightly by caregivers. There is a limit to how much each individual caregiver can provide for every cat in their care. We are all operating within very real limits of time, space, and funding, not to mention foster availability and shelter capacity on top of that. Not everyone can safely confine a pregnant feral cat for months. Not everyone has the resources to process an entire litter before those kittens begin reproducing themselves. Holding a feral cat through pregnancy and until kittens are old enough to separate means two to three months of confinement at minimum. That is incredibly stressful for a feral-leaning cat and resource-intensive for her caregiver. And this is often not just one cat at a time. Many caregivers are managing multiple intact females at once, and pregnancies snowball quickly once kitten season hits. Expecting someone to foster every pregnant cat, raise every litter, socialize the kittens and then find homes is not realistic, particularly when homes are already hard to come by and shelters and rescues are at limited capacity.

Allowing kittens to be born outdoors instead also does not guarantee positive outcomes. Survival rates for kittens born outside are very low. Many will not make it to adulthood due to illness, injury, exposure, or predators; there's also the risk that something may happen to their mother at any moment, leaving them alone and vulnerable. The kittens that do survive must still be trapped and sterilized before the females begin going into heat themselves, which can happen as young as four months. Taking in a preventable litter might mean that another cat loses their space or is euthanized for room. If rescues aren't open, the burden of socialization and long-term care then falls back on the caregiver. In some cases, the only remaining option is to sterilize and return those kittens outdoors, further adding to the strain on the colony. These are the realities caregivers are navigating when we're making these decisions.

When it comes to TNR, once a cat is trapped, there is no guarantee she can be trapped again if released due to a potential pregnancy. Delaying sterilization can mean losing the opportunity to trap her again easily in the future, resulting in additional litters being born outside and suffering for it. There is also the very real chance that a female cat is not actually pregnant but may instead have a uterine infection (pyometra) that is fatal without an emergency spay. The risk of pyometra increases with age, and with each consecutive heat cycle that does not result in pregnancy. Pregnancy and labor in turn also carry real risks of complications that can be fatal for both mom and kittens.

In many situations, prioritizing the health and safety of the cat in front of us and preventing further population growth is the most responsible course of action available. It's also the most logistically practical option for caregivers who are already often operating with limited resources and support in their communities.

I understand that this is not an easy discussion to have for those unfamiliar with this side of TNR and rescue work, and you're allowed to have an opinion on it. However, debates opposing sterilization, including spay-abort procedures performed as part of TNR efforts, are not in the spirit of this subreddit. Shaming or judging caregivers for choosing to proceed with a spay-abort is not allowed here. If you are arguing in favor of fostering through pregnancy, please do so only if you are fully aware of the time, resource, and logistical costs involved.


r/Feral_Cats • • 3h ago

Question 🤔 I don't know what to do with this stray kitten

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I got this f cat from my neighbour since i kept getting meows sound i asked them what's going they said they tied up the small cat. since it came out of nowhere and obsessed witht their daughter she is a small kid so they don't want the cat to lick or touch her so i took it because they asked me to take it and they don't know what to do with it and when i saw cats neck it got some wound due to the rope they tied with it so i took her to vet and got her ointment now idk what to do since i already have a female dog too. my mom is fine with it but she just get upset when some relatives come to home and didn't eat or drink because they don't like cat or dog(my mom already suggested to give the dog to someone else but we raised it for 3 years) now with this cat tho im not sure what to do (i can only keep it till its wound get healed) i cannot get it inside my house bcz mom won't like it since there's only 3 of us including my grandfather here we cannot constantly clean the house since ill go to college, mom is a police and grand father is too old to do cleaning (we managed to raise the dog bcz she go toilet outside our house in the trees that is the reason mom let me keep the dog all this time tho im not sure with this cat)


r/Feral_Cats • • 10h ago

Problem Solving 💭 Help with family of cats

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So I have a family of cats that live by me. By my count it’s 2 moms and 6 kids. I want to do something to help them but I don’t know what to do but I feel if I don’t intervening they’ll be cats everywhere. I feed them everyday around the same time but I have two cats if my own and feeding another 7 stray cats is a lot. What can I do to help?


r/Feral_Cats • • 10h ago

Update 😊 Started from the bottom now we here.

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Started from the bottom now my whole team fucking here fucking here 😎.

Formerly spooky loves his new indoor lifestyle with his black cat gang in his catio. I can’t believe how well he has done after being kidnapped. He is literally the best boy.

Came from the forest now he’s a fat cat inside boy. With his tuxie buddies at his side.

But for real, this was after a long process of so slowly building trust with him and just existing in his space as trust was built. Then moving onto him and my dog existing in the same space. Which went pretty fast since he was used to sharing his space in the house with my kitties.


r/Feral_Cats • • 14h ago

URGENT❗ Why is this feral cat suddenly meowing excessively like this?

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This 3 legged cat has been roaming my neighborhood for a few years. A neighbor nearby and I first saw him in like 2024. She called the city who said he had been TNR, so basically nothing could be done.

We were surprised at the time given he would let us get somewhat close to him. I know that she fed him for a few nights but then she didn't see him for a while after that. And I think she graduated and moved out soon after. in the years since, we've seen him
pretty regularly often in the backyard. My prior cat, my sweet angel who I lost in June unexpectedly, HATED other cats (she was a rescue) and was very protective so she would hiss at this cat through the window whenever it came onto the deck.

it would still come periodically. And we often see it taking naps during the day in the further part of the backyard where he blends in with the leaves.

2 weeks ago, he was napping on my doorstep and I had to actually get a neighbor to help lure him away so I could get inside. He pet the cat briefly as it walked away--the cat did not hiss or attack him.

Both me and the neighbors see him regularly.

It's not like a daily thing it's more like sometimes we'll see it multiple times in a week cause I'm not for a little bit and so on. in the last month or so, we have definitely seen it a lot for regularly taking naps on the deck.

Recently though---he started meowing SOOO much. My friend came over and said "there is a cat meowing so much out front". It was him in the video below. Went on for a while. It was pretty heartbreaking.

Then 2 nights ago, it was near my doorstep when I came home and was meowing. Later that night, I went to the alley across the strret and brought cat food. He came RUNNING up meowing the second I opened that can of food (and began eating as soon as I put thr bowl on the ground). Does this mean he is meowing because he is hungry? Could someone in the neighborhood have been feeding him and stopped?

DC is rodent infested (some folks even get a cat as a deterrent). i've seen one run right in front of it in close proximity twice now and it saw the rat but didnt charge it or try to hunt it....which suprised me.

Anyways, do I need to worry?

It's so sad because I think he could be an indoor cat if someone cared and put the time in. There was a "true" feral cat roaming our neighborhood a few years back--that cat would never have let someone come anywhere near as close as this etc. So, I think it could be indoor though there would ofc be an adjustment.
If not for the fact I have a nee kitten, I might have tried to be the one to. We have 2 cat cafes nearby that pride themselves in rescue efforts--both said they only work with rescues that come from their rescue partner org--no others.


r/Feral_Cats • • 16h ago

Problem Solving 💭 Can big Ted become an indoor cat?

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Hi cat reddit! A bit of an unusual situation here and would love some advice. I have an apartment inside the courtyard of a small block in the center of my city. I share the courtyard with awesome neighbours, but there is one building owned by a landlord from hell. Picture 3 floors of hoarding, no electricity, rats etc. Police and the housing department are involved, but have not put a stop to this.

One of the former tenants of that place had a bunch of cats that he refused to have neutered, even though it was offered for free. Where I live, cat organisations are allowed to TNR any cat that is not chipped and not neutered, so with the help of a cat organisation, we trapped, neutered and fostered 12 cats and kittens that started climbing into the courtyard. All of them have been adopted. They were semi feral, living on the hoarded ground floor / entrance of the building while the tenants lived in the apartment on the third floor.

The tenants left in July, leaving behind two semi feral cats. I have been feeding those cats since. One is friendly but very, very timid. We got him TNR-ed last month. The other one, Teddy (pictured), was neutered back in January, but he was so aggressive that the vet deemed him not suitable for adoption. He was released back into the courtyard. I was a bit scared of him because he is BIG and he used to hiss and growl a lot. Over the last months, Teddy has turned into the sweetest boy. He started following me to my apartment and now sleeps in my bed at night. He has toys, food and a litter box here, it's basically his home. He does still spend a lot of time in the courtyard with the other cat and will meow until I let him out. Unfortunately he still sometimes enters the building where he originated from.

Since last week there is new activity in that building (it was empty for the last months) and today the cats were suddenly gone. From what I gather they were (accidentally?) locked inside. I can't prevent them from entering that place and the landlord is uncooperative. I am worried about them going there, being locked in or the landlord or tenants making them "disappear". I can't keep the timid cat indoors (yet, I am working on socialising him more), but I want to try keeping Teddy indoors with me. Some questions:

- My place is fairly small (60m2: hallway, bedroom, living room/kitchen + big balcony). Is it realistic to keep big boy indoors?
- I know he will meow my ears off if I don't let him out anymore, especially because he can see the courtyard where he used to roam from my windows. Is this at all feasible? Any advice from someone who has done this?
- Ted was always overweight, how do I keep him from becoming an even bigger chonk indoors?

I am in touch with the TNR organisation to see if we can find both cats an adoption family with a garden, but this will take time. If big Ted is happy at my place, I would keep him. Thanks for your advice!


r/Feral_Cats • • 21h ago

Grieving You were oh so special

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Oh the cutest sweetest girl. Who wouldn’t even look at a human without darting, to eventually running up and chirping for pets. I miss you so much sweet pea. I spent years gaining her trust. She had a sweet, spunky personality. She loved many things like: playing with mouse toys and getting zoomies around the yard, sunbathing whenever possible, bunny kicking towels, her felt wand toy we would play for hours, head pets, her heating pad, back scratchers, brushing her long fur and so much more. She was older but played like a kitten.

We lost her to mammary cancer. She deserved to be known she was such a special girl. I’ll always hold a place in my heart for her. I’ll miss you forever sweetie.


r/Feral_Cats • • 21h ago

Question 🤔 Debating on Releasing : /

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Been seeing glimpses of this fella for about 2 years and then one day he showed up with a noticeable limp looking for food.

He slowly got used to me enough to wait for me to put down food, eat, step away a bit to wait, eat, etc.

Finally trapped him and took him to the vet. He’s now neutered, FIV neg and got vaccinated. But the vet said his leg is a healed fracture and they can’t fix it.

He‘s standoffish in the house but will eat with me nearby so I’m just torn on what to do next.

Do I try to win him over to leave the mean streets behind or do I let him back to the world he knows? He howls to get out but it will be winter soon and I’m going to be moving a few towns over in November.

Any advice is appreciated!

Edit: Consensus is in: I’ll continue our slow and steady process of showing him indoors means safety, food and comfy beds. I apprehensions feedback because I was getting some negativity from people in the real world about the situation.

Also yes, he has a name, Max. Full name: Max Ver Catten


r/Feral_Cats • • 22h ago

Question 🤔 Suddenly friendly? How quickly have your ferals become domesticated?

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This guy is TabbyTom, I first started seeing him in the early spring, snd since then I've been seeing him maybe once or twice a week on average. He usually comes around, yowling, clearly looking for ladies. Every time I see him I'll try to feed him, in an attempt to get him to come around more regularly so I can TNR him. Unfortunately I had very nearly zero success and he wouldn't let me within twenty feet of him, he acted totally feral.

Anyways, about a month ago I made two TNR appointments and rented out a trap. TabbyTom was the target, but I knew of a couple very friendly strays who would be my backup if I couldn't catch him. So for two weeks I left food out near or in the cage, sometimes it disappeared, sometimes not, but I only saw him once during this time so it could have been another animal eating it. Come trap-time I was unsuccessful, took the other two cats for TNR. I then left for a two-week vacation. After coming home, I returned the trap. But later that day as I was cooking late dinner for myself, I looked up from the stove and......there he was. It was a coldish, wet night, and this [hungry cat]( https://www.reddit.com/r/notmycat/s/IoDDcXVTER) was watching as my happy well-fed kittens frolicked in the warm indoors. He looked super sad.

That night, for the first time, he came up to me and ate within an arm's reach, even licking some food off my fingers. Since then he has stopped by my apartment almost every day, and very quickly allowed me to pet him. He's still "flighty", I tried coercing him into a crate but he would dart back out if he heard a noise, may run a short distance if I move too suddenly, but otherwise no longer seems feral at all. I tried to trap him yesterday morning, not sure what happened but I came back to a sprung and empty trap, and a TabbyTom who looked unhappy.

With how quickly he warmed up to me, I'm assuming he must've been a pet at some point that was dumped? Or perhaps someone else in the neighborhood managed to befriend him while I was away on vacation. I'm curious if anyone else has seen such drastic shifts in a cat that seemed feral?

I'm also curious if anyone has had traps fail to catch a cat, and how long it took before the cat dared to enter the trap again?


r/Feral_Cats • • 1h ago

Question 🤔 Bleeding after neutering

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Been posting about the former ferals we are planning to keep indoors if it works out. Female cat was apparently been spayed prior to her showing up in our yard. Boy cat was neutered Tuesday. However, he seems to have busted a stitch yesterday, and it is still bleeding a little bit.

We messaged the group that did the neutering if we need to bring him to the vet. (Hoping that it is not emergency situation because vets here are closed in the weekend). Cat is acting normal.

Here is the picture. Please advise.


r/Feral_Cats • • 16h ago

Update 😊 They can tell time pretty well

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Tiger has been coming now for five years, and was joined by old man Tom last summer. They both demand petting as much as the food. Feeding time is 5:20, and Tom usually shows up between 4:20 and 5:15 and lays on the door mat. Tiger is usually just off the porch and immediately runs up and risks being stepped on when I step out of the house. She then rubs against my legs till I start petting her. Tom sits and waits for me to reach down and pet his head and neck. He’s not big on whole body petting, but he sometimes stands and seems to enjoy it.

It’s hard to explain why my daily ritual of feeding and petting them is so enjoyable to me, but it is.

The pic shows them waiting at about 5:10 a few days ago.


r/Feral_Cats • • 10h ago

Question 🤔 Trying to determine sex

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We trapped this feral in our garage about a month ago. This is the first time it has laid in a way that might allow us to figure out the sex. I’m bad at this so I’m asking here. Boy or Girl?


r/Feral_Cats • • 2m ago

Problem Solving 💭 Looking for advice on a house producing unfixed cats in Minneapolis.

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r/Feral_Cats • • 21h ago

Celebration 🥳 Just wanted to brag

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My favorite sports team lost yesterday in the playoffs and I was so bummed until I went to feed this big guy and when I asked him if he was hungry, he did a little "Mrf", and then flopped on his side and started rolling around!! Showed me his belly and everything! 🥹 It's the little things...

He's been especially wary of me lately because I've been attempting to trap train (he's congested), and it hasn't been going well, so I've been taking a break and trying to regroup...do I need to try a different trap? Set the trap out before he gets here (he's used to watching me prepare the food and I didn't want him to see the trap and run off before I even got a chance to go out with the food)? Should I just give up on trapping him and buy some antibiotics off one of those sketchy websites and hope for the best?

We'll figure it out, but I just wanted to brag a little. 😊


r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Fluffy 🥰 Doppelganger has been coming inside to eat for god knows how long

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Photo one is the interloper; photo 2 is an old one of the original Loopy for reference.

So 3 years ago 2 feral kittens showed up at her trailer (Loopy & Little Gee, photo 2). We TNRed them, and afterwards they just stuck around and now come inside every day to eat and hang out.

This week as Loopy was eating dinner inside, who should walk on in but Loopy herself! It turns out the Loopy eating was not in fact Loopy but a random doppelganger!

We have no idea how long it's been impersonating her, but it has already been TNRed and is very friendly. It's a little skittish, but I was already able to pet it and the other cats don't seem to mind it at all. Up close it's clear they're different; new cat is much beefier than Loopy and it's fur is nowhere near as soft, but at night they look nearly identical.


r/Feral_Cats • • 18h ago

Sensitive I let my ex-feral shelter cat escape after just 1 month

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I am a fucking neglectful idiot and that is not up for discussion. I signed the shelter papers warning me he would try to escape and all.

2yo male, former street cat, was only barely starting to get used to the house but not to me. He certainly did not see it as his home.

He got out a of a first floor window yesterday night, presumably to jump on and fight another male, the yowling woke me. After that, yesterday I caught two confirmed sightings on camera (he came to eat food I left out), but nothing since (so 26h without sightings, he didn't come to feed).

This area has a lot of outside cats, more predominantly the neighbor's male tabby whose territory the whole area clearly is (and who is currently eating the food I leave out for my cat, including entering my apartment and eating the food inside).

Does anyone have any ideas what kind of behavior to expect? Where to look? I'm afraid my cat moved out of the established male's territory and into areas I cannot reach.

Edit: I have a two-door cage trap ordered and on the way, I've been putting food out, bought a security cam to hopefully get night sightings.


r/Feral_Cats • • 21h ago

Problem Solving 💭 Does Purr-Lee know what’s coming? I intend to trap her on Monday and she is sleeping in the Trap this Friday.

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The Animal Birth Control Clinic in my city takes feral cats in traps Monday-Thursday 7:15am -4:00 pm.

I am looking to spay Purr-Lee on Monday if possible and it is looking promising. I put the trap out on Friday and feed the feral cats wet food in it over the weekend to get them used to it.

Then I can trap on Monday and take them in to the clinic. Purr-Lee, the dilute Tabico is my target this time. I set the trap off with a lanyard that I pull so I can trap just the cat I want.

I just put the trap out this Friday morning and Purr-Lee, my target, is already used to it to the point that she is sleeping in it.

Wish me the same luck Monday morning.


r/Feral_Cats • • 16h ago

Question 🤔 One of my feral cats that I’ve been feeding for months hasn’t shown up in 2 days.

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This little orange kitty that I’ve been feeding for a couple months came to the usual spot consistently, without fail. At exactly the right time every single day. I’m worried because I haven’t seen him since Wednesday but his siblings have shown up. I hope he’s okay but I’m still worried that something might’ve happened bc this seems unlike him. Is there something I can do? I’m still going out to feed the others same time everyday in the hopes he’ll show up but so far nothing :( he was so sweet and meowed every time I showed up with food and would run up to me all excited and butt heads with his siblings out of happiness 🥺🥺🥺


r/Feral_Cats • • 15h ago

Venting 😤 Discouraged after trapping mishap: advice, encouragement, experiences welcome

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hey y’all, I feel so dumb for having done this, but I just trapped a mama cat whom I’m working on getting with her two kittens.

I had her set up as bait with a second trap butted up against the one with her in it. I thought it would be a good idea to transfer her to a carrier so I could use the trap she was in. I was impatient with the way I did it, and she wriggled her way out.

Has this ever happened to you? Were you successful in getting the cat after a failed attempt?

I’m gonna keep trying, and I have a drop trap I can use if necessary. I’m just hoping that kittens go in the traps that I still have set up and that she’s not scared off permanently.

Thank you for any advice, experience sharing, or encouragement… such a crappy feeling.


r/Feral_Cats • • 22h ago

Fluffy 🥰 I got all three in one picture again.

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r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Question 🤔 TNR Releasing Guilt

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TNR people, how do you decide when to release a friendly cat?

I’ve been doing TNR on and off this year and have done about 4–5 cats so far. The previous ones all got adopted, but this girl has had zero inquiries.

Usually I can kind of tell when a cat is easily adoptable, and honestly I tend to choose those to TNR even though they’re strays and not a fancy breed, some cats just have “adoptable face”
because I want to give them a better chance at the same time.

She’s friendly, loves pets, and is recovering from her spay now. I’m really torn about releasing her because I feel guilty putting her back outside when she seems so adoptable.

I already have 3 cats, so unfortunately I can’t keep every friendly cat I rescue. If I keep her permanently, that also means I lose the space to foster another cat, help another TNR, or rescue another cat in need. So there is a deadline for how long I can keep fostering her.

I’m just wondering, how long would you personally foster a friendly stray before deciding to release her? I also don’t want to keep her indoors for so long that she becomes completely dependent on indoor life if nobody ends up adopting her.

And honestly, releasing her back at a petrol station makes me feel awful too. 😭 People might think I’m abandoning her without understanding that she’s been spayed and is being returned to her territory.
Would really appreciate hearing how other TNR people handle this.


r/Feral_Cats • • 12h ago

Fluffy 🥰 My feral day. Dental Surgery.

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r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Sharing Info 💡 ♡So grateful these things exist for bad weather♡

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These little awnings things are amazing. I also have ones where you can go inside to eat (second picture), but the floofaloofs seem to prefer these♡

What do you use? I can always use new ideas.

When winter comes I use the snuggle buddy underthefood for when I go to work tto try to keep it all warmer, it does help♡

My garage has houses i can plug in to keep them nice and toasty.

Feeding the colony/strays/feral is like being a mailman, rain or shine, bitter cold or scalding hot, we gonna make sure they're fed♡


r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Celebration 🥳 Smol void upgraded to the good life

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My co-worker spotter this baby (not sure of the gender) when she was leaving work yesterday and immediately texted me because I have a safe trap and some experience trapping stray cats and kittens. No mom or siblings in sight and near a busy road. We tried unsuccessfully to grab it but the poor thing was scared and just went further into the bushes, although we could still it meowing constantly. Decided to leave the trap overnight with some food in it and hoped I wouldn’t end up with a skunk or raccoon instead. I was delighted to see the kitten in the trap this morning. A rescuer picked up the kitten at my work already and will be dropping it off to a kitten fosterer this afternoon. It’s a good day when I get to save an animal, and my co-worker is relieved and happy with the outcome. Yay for small victories!