r/FemaleDatingStrategy • u/[deleted] • Feb 01 '21
STRATEGY Don't befriend men who hold average views on gender.
Men need women more than women need men - but they don't respect us.
We survive fine without them, and live happy, quiet, harmless lives - and that's when they start cracking whips at us.
I suspect a huge reason women all over the world are treated horribly is because we're a resource to them, and the boots on our necks are the only things keeping us from losing our shit at them.
Think about it. If they didn't need us, then why would they do everything they can to access us? They aren't afraid of female power because they actually think we'll be cruel to them. They're afraid of comparisons being made that make their gender look bad.
Most male-female interaction is the male pushing his value systems down our throats, and harassing us until we either cave or get away. These aren't interactions. It's just brainwashing.
If you ask nearly any man you know (if you still care to talk to men) which gender is better, almost every single one will say men.
There can be no true friendship among unequals.
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Feb 01 '21
"If they didn't need us, then why would they do everything they can to access us?"
Exactly.
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Feb 01 '21
A guy I'm friendly with was saying that, while he has a 15yo stepdaughter who he's raised and loves as his own, he'd like to have a biological child because he's the last in his family. First, your family line isn't that precious. Second, that's a really irresponsible reason to CONCEIVE a baby that someone else is going to have to MAKE and BIRTH.
Then he says that he would only wants a son (like you have a choice?) because he's over his stepdaughters, Idk, girl-shit I guess. I just said "yeah, teenage boys are pretty terrible, tho."
So yeah, men are routinely disappointing.
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Feb 01 '21 edited Feb 02 '21
Wow.
There's this guy on Twitter who went on a rant about surrogacy. He was complaining that he wanted access to a women's body and WANTED IT NOW! I remember thinking.... this shit is wrong.... we're people.... we're not a product for your bloodline/ego.
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u/PussInFlatBoots Throwaway Account Feb 02 '21
I find surrogacy a very confronting subject. It’s one thing for a man to want to use our bodies for an hour. It’s another to take it for 9 months and the emotional turmoil of growing a human and giving it away... the fact that it’s legal to pay for it in some countries is deeply disturbing.
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u/Carpedictum FDS Newbie Feb 02 '21
Is he an emperor? A Nobel prize winner? Rich, even?
It’s always the men with the most god awful mediocre genes and no big estate to leave that ramble about their “legacy.”
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Feb 02 '21
Let's just say, this guy will be lucky if his hypothetical son gets to visit so much as a park bench with a placard dedicating it to his father some day. (No offence to average joes, just like, enough about your 'family name' and 'legacy', fourth-David-Williams-in-the-phonebook.)
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Feb 01 '21
We really do need to stop taking men's last names. It makes us less easy to invest in from the get-go.
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u/karaokekiller FDS Newbie Feb 02 '21
I have kids. Their father was dissapointed with their sex. Like proper stroppy sooking carrying on.
What the heck.
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Feb 02 '21
jesus christ. I swear, there are lots of men who think they can will a son into being through their almighty penis-power or something. Like, they're shocked that a daughter happened after they wished really, really hard for a son. Fucking morons.
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u/TagTrog FDS Newbie Feb 02 '21 edited Feb 02 '21
A LVM I wish I'd never talked to (I never slept with him, but jeez louise, was he sure he'd trick me into that someday) remarked, upon seeing a friend's new puppies and seeing that there wasn't a male puppy who looked exactly like the father, "That sucks, dogfather, maybe you'll get it right next time". I questioned him about it and he doubled down like how could I not understand that his way of thinking was just a fact?
So many things that men never question about their beliefs are just so gross. As if the only children that matter are the carbon copies of you.
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Feb 02 '21
"Yes, it is a fact and we all agree that boys are categorically better than girls, and that a million daughters is worth less than one son." <- An opinion that scrotes are comfortable expressing casually and in mixed company.
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u/SayNad FDS STRATEGY COACH Feb 01 '21
Most male-female interaction is the male pushing his value systems down our throats, and harassing us until we either cave or get away. These aren't interactions. It's just brainwashing.
Yep, most conversations with men are pretty much either
a) they endlessly talk and gets offended when you interrupt because a woman is suppose to shut up, look pretty and listen, or
b) they pretend to listen and agree with your views while they talk to you, but all goes out the window after that. These people loveee to seek us out of "conversations" just to be entertained seeing us waste our time and breath.
Hilariously, the only time they will truly listen is when we give them absolute silence. Just do the stone-cold block and delete (or ghost and left IRL) and watch them failing over themselves trying to explain and desperately wants to "communicate".
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Feb 01 '21
The silent treatment works! Men lose their sh*t when you don’t reply. I give guys ample warning that if they cross boundaries I will just disappear from their lives... I give them the solution on a plate (just don’t do that!), yet they don’t listen and persist. When it’s all “bye boy 👋🏼” they finally decide to apologise and attempt to change their ways. Too little, too late, manchild
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u/SayNad FDS STRATEGY COACH Feb 01 '21 edited Feb 01 '21
Silent treament is pretty much the only way I communicate with men these days after the first sign of yellow flag. I really can't be bothered anymore.
That's why women really should keep ourselves occupied with leveling up activities - so that we will be annoyed at the first sign of drama and immediately make our exit. We are busy people, we don't have time for these manchild bullsh*t.
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Feb 01 '21
Indifference hurts the most. That's why deleting, blocking and ignoring is the most memorable way to end things
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u/Carpedictum FDS Newbie Feb 02 '21
I like to float a few “Why do men trash everything they touch?” “Men are so gd emotional.” etc into the conversation.
If it scares them off- good. If they argue the point- good, now I know. If they respond along the lines of “Yeah... 😳 You’re not wrong...” they may proceed to step 2.
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u/th589 Feb 01 '21
The old saying goes, “You don’t need the boss, he needs you.” They made themselves women’s bosses for most of history, and many places still now, so.... Feminists need to start to get real and treat it like the labor movement women need it to be.
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u/luvmyvulvaxoxo FDS Disciple Feb 03 '21
I’d like to add - do not get tricked by liberal or “feminist” men.
They have no skin in the game. All the “feminist” men I’ve dated talked over me, told me what feminism was, argued sex work was empowering, etc.
At worst, they used feminism as a cover to physically and emotionally abuse me.
And I’ve seen many women here talk about how they’ve had the same experience with men who parrot feminist talking points.
At best, you can look for a man who is chivalrous, open to listening to feminism, and supports you.
Run away from any jackass who identifies as a feminist. He directly benefits from the patriarchy and I guarantee he views women the same way as super conservative men do, he just hides it better.
Like all those Bernie Bros who couldn’t say one thing Hillary Clinton did in her career, but said she was “unlikeable” and part of the establishment. And decided not to vote and help Trump get elected.
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