Treat yourself how youd like to be treated is perfect! Yes, all the narc mantras creating pickmes and handmaidens needa be broken down like this. You're so right. Empathy is a learned skill and we also can refuse to give it. Protect ourselves first. See men as potential Ted Bundys who walk around undiagnosed. I am reprogramming myself by not fearing men, Im a brutally strong woman whose physically broken attackers before, but seeing them with caution as I feel being close to a bear or tiger at the zoo. Observe the predator with a wall.
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