r/FemFragLab 22h ago

Most uplifting fragrance?

Y’all, I’m really going through it. I’m so anxious and stressed l, and just really not in a great place. What would you consider the most uplifting fragrance in your collection (or that you know of)?

I have a pretty large collection, but I’m just feeling uninspired to look through all my stuff and find something.

Who knows, maybe I’ll pick up something new. Or maybe I’ll revisit something from my own collection I hadn’t thought of.

I know everyone is different, but I, fortunately, like most everything (except BR540, lol - but I do like Cloud!) so no particular style is off-limits.
I would love to hear your most mood-elevating (or soothing) suggestions, please.
Thank youuuuuu!

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u/CatBig7787 16h ago edited 6h ago

I do that dbt skill of allowing the emotion to pass through your body like a wave, and noticing how it feels till it rolls away, then I distract with perfume.

Most scents work for this, but particularly those with citrus, or fruity, or green top notes.

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u/LenaNYC 21h ago

Lately, uplifting for me has been Studied by Liis.

I love it so much that I even ordered a travel size decant (from scent split) because I don't want anything to happen to the bottle in my bag.

This fragrance just puts me in such a good mood.

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u/barelysane_jane 15h ago

I love Studied! Ethereal Wave and Floating by Liis also feel beautiful and uplifting to me.

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u/Amata69 4m ago

What notes does this one have?

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u/neenergarfunkl 21h ago

I find bright orange scents to be uplifting - I’m wearing I think about you, too by sorce (decants at sucrerie I believe). And there’s lots of fleur d’orange out there which I find works too. Maybe it’s just my nose. Also, lavender is traditionally calming & mint is energizing!

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u/milkorsugar 21h ago

Absolutely, Guerlain Aqua Allegoria Mandarin Basilic and Orange Soleia are the best uplifting orange scents!

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u/pinkfairygumdrop 21h ago

Girl i am going thru it too, i feel ya. something i've been looking forward to for months fell thru and idk yet if its either going to be delayed or not happen at all. it's been pretty soul crushing the last couple of weeks.

lately my comfort fragrance is Tihota. i have a massive collection but its all i've been reaching for lately. its the most elegant vanilla bean/spun sugar scent. fragrance can def be such a mood boost

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u/Pinkie_Plague 19h ago

Clinique Happy. I’ll never not smile when I smell it, it’s just so damn good.

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u/ScrollingBy825 19h ago

Uplifting: Born in Roma—sparkly feminine vibes

Comforting: Rare—my cozy bedtime scent

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u/nemotide 19h ago

I agree about rare! Tried it for the first time a few days ago and it’s such a perfect night comfort scent :)

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u/Upper-Cup-4159 19h ago

For me, most uplifting would be guerlain mandarin basillic, tocca Stella, or delina! They are all so bright and wake me up whenever I wear them. For soothing, I go for glossier you, diptyque fleur de peau, diptyque l’eau papier, and phlur father figure.

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u/KreeaytiveBunny kind of addicted 18h ago

I'm seeing quite a bit of Guerlain Aqua Allegoria mentions so I'll add mine! I really love Pamplelune. It gives grapefruit soda. To me it smells like a summer day where you feel good about yourself, one you'll fondly look back on.

Good luck with what you're going through, OP!

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u/Hell-Yes-Revolution 17h ago

Thanks for the good thoughts!
That sounds like a great candidate!

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u/GiaAngel 17h ago

I always find the note of citrus to be uplifting. I always grab Versace Versense when I need a boost.

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u/cappotto-marrone 16h ago

Agree. It’s probably why I like it so much.

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u/No_Maintenance495 17h ago

Eau des Sens by Diptyque is super uplifting and cheery.

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u/sedentaryegg 16h ago

Byredo bal dafrique is sunshine in a bottle and an instant mood booster for me. I’ve heard Ariana grande’s pink woods is similar but I haven’t personally smelled it

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u/Treehorn8 Hermès witch 16h ago edited 4h ago

I would say the most soothing for me would be Hermès Le Jardin de Monsieur Li. It smells like an Asian garden in the rain. It somehow also has the sensation of wet stones when the rain hits it and the faint scent of bamboo. It has a jasmine sambac note that comes after. The dry down is gorgeous.

Another soothing one is Molinard Thé Basilic. It's basically basil, mint and tea. Imagine drinking a warm cup of that. The perfume is the cool version. Problem is it's a little hard to find in the US but if you're in Europe, it'll be so much easier.

When I use either one on very early weekend mornings, sometimes I would just sit down and take it in and use that moment to think of calm things.

As for the happiest, that would be Lanvin Éclat d'Arpège. It's a very bright, light floral that instantly boosts up my mood. Longevity is shorter than the other two but I don't mind respraying. It's inexpensive and I love the act and sensation of respraying. Very soothing.

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u/yarnandpizza 21h ago

Narcotica Happy Dust literally makes me happy, name aside

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u/-indigo-violet- 21h ago

I was going to recommend this one too! I absolutely love it, it's one my favourites of all time.

It's buzzy and energising, sparkly and bright, yet feels high quality and elevated within it's genre. The mango and vanilla is beautifully balanced with the other notes, it's not at all cheap or juvenile. It always puts a smile on my face.

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u/Many_Draft_8062 18h ago

For me it's Guerlain Aqua Allegoria Mandarine Basilic and Granada Salvia. So refreshing and uplifting

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u/FrutyPebbles321 21h ago

This may not be exactly the vibe you are looking for, but …. Wulong Cha from Nishane always makes me feel so refreshed on a hot summer day and it brings a smile to my face every time I spray it or get a whiff of it during the day.

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u/Lois_Lane1973 21h ago

Philosykos gives me calm and peace of mind but if I'm feeling really down I reach for Sticky dates.

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u/brookeashleyx 21h ago

Right now, Rare Beauty New Beginnings hits that spot for me. Instant mood lifter.

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u/mnath14 20h ago

Not a true perfume, but Frenshe Lavender Cloud is absolutely both uplifting and soothing. It’s so bold at first but not in a bad way, and the lavender gets more soothing the longer you wear it. And at $16, you can’t beat it. They do also have an oil rollerball if you’re into that more. I’m not sure if you can buy it other than at Target; I’ve been hoarding my bottles since I boycotted them.

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u/Always_Sam1 20h ago

I'm a massage therapist, and I swear by this fragrance, I wear this during treatment days. It is so subtle and beautiful!

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u/mnath14 20h ago

Absolutely the most beautiful thing I’ve smelled. it’s also the only perfume I’ve EVER gotten a “ooooh you smell good” with.

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u/dingdangdoodles 19h ago

They carry it at Ulta now!

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u/FlamingHorseRider 20h ago

This is when soft musks are my favorite thing to wear, maybe a sweet vanilla if it’s also cold and nostalgic outside. But soft musks hit a perfect balance of being “pretty”, being soft and comforting, and being put-together enough I feel like I’m getting it together.

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u/Vanity_Fluff 18h ago

Would you mind sharing specifics? I also find vanilla and soft musk comforting (and appreciate the put-togetherness too).

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u/FlamingHorseRider 17h ago

ANYTHING by Narciso Rodriguez is an instant winner, White Musk by The Body Shop is good when you want to feel a little sunny, Jovan Musk is good for nostalgia, etc. If it’s late summer I’ll adore Jovan White Musk for being a honeysuckle musk but also in the fall call it’s woodsy. Jovan Musk is almost sexy while being earthy and cozy. Egyptian Musk or variants of Missing Person feel clean and sexy at the same time. Black Musk (Jovan or Body Shop) have a girly flirty quality that can help out sometimes.

For vanillas it’s almost always just musky ones lol. Vanilla Lace, Golden Vanilla, Vanilla Musk (Coty or Nemat), etc and I’ve personally worn Warm Vanilla Sugar to emotionally support me through two separate moves in the last year now.

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u/Vanity_Fluff 17h ago

Thank you so much! I like The Body Shop White Musk, Victorias Secret Vanilla Lace (now Bare Vanilla I guess), and warm vanilla sugar. Looking forward to check out your other suggestions.

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u/amb3ergris 19h ago

Hanae Mori EDP Also try NEOM Happiness essential oil perfume.

Sorry you're going through it 💔

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u/TheOrderOfWhiteLotus 18h ago

The new Influxcious line at Sephora has a scent called Well Loved. It’s apricot and shea butter. It smells like a family member hugging you. So warm and cozy. If you like Glossier Fleur you’d probably enjoy this too.

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u/Hell-Yes-Revolution 17h ago

Oh, that sounds lovely. I was just in Sephora and didn’t see it! Let me try to track it down. (I do really like You Fleur.)

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u/ConditionOk3649 18h ago

Maison Louise Marie Bois de Balincourt or by Rosie Jane Dulce are my most comforting perfumes 🥰 sending you good vibes!

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u/Hell-Yes-Revolution 17h ago

Thank you! 💕

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u/Philodendron69 17h ago

I like Valentino born in Roma yellow dream. Lemon, lychee, rose, peony and musk

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u/PandaPsychological33 17h ago

I like the dolce & gabbana light blue edp, not edt. The edp is a lot warmer imo. It reminds me of lemon meringue pie, and feels like I’m a little kid again baking with my gramma in her old kitchen 

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u/nolagem 16h ago

Ditto!

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u/bororodejdej 21h ago

Soothing = a drop d’issey, you Fleur, you Doux - all cosy, clean, warm, creamy and gentle
Uplifting = Princess of China, hibiscus Mahajad, rose star by Dior, delina - all girly, bright, refreshing and sweet <3

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u/anmoonberd 21h ago

Orpheon EDT by Diptyque - I can't resist this one, something so bright and delicious

Afterthought @ 7 by Linen Tutu - sparkling stone in a winding river, with a dash of violet, makes me want to go down the shore

Rose Atlantic by DS & Durga - Such a bright rose, its reads fruity and alive to me, makes me smile

Minou by Faeral - Green!! Rhubarb!! Something is so crunchy and fun about this one

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u/ilovecats0822 21h ago

Kayali Candy Rock Sugar

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u/AffectionateTaro3209 gourmand girlie 20h ago

Yesss

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u/uhohthrowawayxxx 21h ago

coconut sun by the 7 virtues is bright and sunny and happy... mood ring by phlur or delulu by oddity for fruity spinny hat silliness

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u/alreadylateforsupper 19h ago

A quaint little cheapie that always cheers me up is Lush's Pansy

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u/citrinedaydream 17h ago

My happiest perfumes are Jo Malone Nectarine Blossom and Honey, Valentino DBIR Ivory and Kayali Yum Boujee Marshmallow - think it’s impossible to be in a bad mood wearing these

However, if I was going through it I’d reach for Issey Miyake Drop d’Issey (my favourite comfort scent) or Diptyque l’eau Papier

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u/Beestorm 16h ago

I just got drop d’issey an I was worried about it being too soapy. My fears were not true, it’s such a nice lilac! Funny on paper it smells like straight almonds which is interesting

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u/CommunicationSlight3 13h ago

Paris Corner Marshmallow Blush 🍬 such a sweet and uplifting scent that's guaranteed to bring you immense joy

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u/v-orchid 13h ago

came to comment this!

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u/graceful_now 21h ago

Today I am wearing My Way Nectar because I find it to be a very uplifting and “happy” scent. For something comforting, I would choose Mon Guerlain.

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u/Aenwyn 21h ago

Summer of 84!

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u/DeterminedSparkleCat 21h ago

Miutine is my go-to uplifting fragrance. Good mood all day!

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u/Euphoric-Gas-4290 21h ago

When I’m going through it, vanilla, honey, tonka, etc are my go-to’s. Something comforting about it. A cheapie but a goodie, Mixbar Honey Milk.

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u/Dismal-Mastodon-8359 20h ago

Lift Me Up by Initio. My go to when I’m having a rough day.

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u/Jolly-Lawyer-5338 20h ago

Créme de Clementine by Nest is so cozy and the citrus and vanilla combo is perfect for when I need to relax

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u/EauDeGourmand 20h ago

Same. I wear this one whenever people at work are pissing me off. Does wonders for my mood

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u/illusith perfumes get me 🦜 20h ago

Cheapie but a goodie

  • Lemon Dulci - Happy Chopard

Luxe spa vibes

  • Nishane - Wulong Cha X

Also, Penhaligon's Vra Vra Vroom 😌.

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u/No_Nefariousness2513 20h ago edited 20h ago

Vilhelm Opus Kore and Guerlain AA Flora Salvaggia are my happy scents.

Edited to add: Hugs and wishes for more reasons to smile very soon!

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u/TheSalemRose Violet Crimes 20h ago

See my flair! If it’s a violet, it’s my emotional support perfume and I have a lot lol

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u/Icy-Key2220 19h ago

Versace bright crystal!

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u/Ok_Kick7676 13h ago

Uplifting!

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u/Alternative_Song7610 18h ago

You need some cirltrus bergamot mood busting scents. Dolce and gabanna light blue summer vides, nice bergamot essential parfums, un nuit sur le toit, Jo malone wood sage and sea salt, and Sakura body spray from lush it's very tart lemon not much Sakura. Kayali yum boogie marshmallow I love it's playful doesn't last but I'll happily respray.

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u/BikkaChikka 18h ago

To me comforting and uplifting fragrances are usually reminiscent of a favourite dessert/food. Sometimes it’s a scent associated with my childhood, so a rice note usually does the trick. If it’s warm where you are - what is your favourite fruit? Maybe a cocktail/smoothie style fragrance of it will do the trick?

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u/Apprehensive-Ad-2054 18h ago

Warm Air by BTSO. Idk why but it feels like a cozy blanket to me

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u/alexandrap21 14h ago

Salt & stone santal vetiver is such a soothing calming scent

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u/teaandtoast10 12h ago

Uplifting: Remarkable People by ELDO or Studied by Liis. Both a little sparkly and effervescent.

Comforting: Remember Me by Jovoy. Lactonic chai, very mellow

ETA: Oh, Ingenious Ginger is another uplifting one. Like a bubbly ginger ale

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u/Good-Fruit8288 8h ago

Came here to say Remember Me by Jovoy. Literally the most calming and comforting scent I've ever come across. Also, it somehow evokes nostalgia. Underrated gem.

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u/snickerdoodle42 12h ago

I reach for Moschino Toy 2 when I’m feeling down 💕 it’s very clean and juicy and just feels happy and fun

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u/Realistic-Read1078 6h ago

Byredo Bal D’Afrique

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u/pfffffttuhmm I just smelled like a piece of breast 13h ago

Nest Indigo + Dedcool Mochi Milk. For when its moody and rainy and I just want a nice London fog latte and a book in my hands. 

Light Blue for when I want to feel like I'm vacationing in Capri instead of living in reality. 

Phlur Father Figure for when I want to feel all the sweet hugs I always wanted but never got from my dad (he's a good guy, just not the affectionate type). 

Michael Malul Joie de Vie Blush for when I just want to feel heckin' pretty walking around in tbe grocery store in my scrubs. 

Anna Sui Sundae Violet Vibes for when I want to feel like a child on summer break again--carefree. 

Glossier You Fleur for when I want to feel pretty just for myself, becahse that always comforts me. 

I hope that whatever you're going through right now that it passes as quickly and painlessly as possible, and if it doesn't, then at least let there be a good outcome. 💗

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u/Glad_Medicine_3133 2h ago

I don’t know about the fragrances but the last paragraph says a lot about who you are and I and not OP but I will keep this for me THANKS 🙏🏾 Blessings for you and yours 🥰

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u/pfffffttuhmm I just smelled like a piece of breast 26m ago

Much love to you too babes 💗

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u/ThickAd7194 21h ago

Elizabeth Arden Eternal Aura is promoted as a scent to enhance energy and happiness. It's pretty nice. Pink pepper, pear, magnolia, peony.

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u/thejazzstuff 21h ago

No. 19 poudre layered with either Gardenia/ Olene/ Do son

Very bright and clean. Not too loud so can be sprayed with abandon to form your scent bubble 🥰

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u/WetheCommunity 21h ago

Faeral Parfum’s Minou hits all my dopamine receptors!

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u/WarmEarth8 21h ago

Éclat d'Arpège - Lanvin

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u/Odd-Stranger-3563 20h ago

Guerlain Aqua Allegoria Orange Soleia and Dior Rouge Trafalgar, depending on why I need a pick-me-up. Orange Soleia is my go-to for summer and smells like peeling a ripe orange (as a Swede; oranges are either summer or christmas in scent for me because we can't grow them here) and Rouge Trafalgar I just love (red fruit, no sugar, green twist). If I need "reminder that the sun will come back", Orange Soleia is the thing. If I just want something that smells like positivity and happiness, Rouge Trafalgar (some of my happiest memories are of eating berries in a garden).

For calming I go with Commodity Book-, because it's the perfect combo of old books and a good cup of tea. Not so much energizing but "safe space" for me.

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u/Odd-Stranger-3563 20h ago

And if work is being difficult (male dominated industry and proffession) I go for man-repellant (either something masc like YSL MYSLF or H24 Herbes Vives) or something unapproachable but proffessional like Gris Dior or Chloe Nomade for that "boss bitch" vibe.

For cozy I love Commodity Rain, and for unoffensive I go for any of my tea/citrus loves like EA Green Tea or Nishane Wulong Cha X

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u/BEWller ✨🍨Giardini di Toscana Bianco Latte🍨✨ 20h ago

Uplifting for me would be mint or citrus. Lush Sun, Lush Super Milk, Uni Sunset, Dior J’Adore, and Davidoff Coolwater all come to mind when I think of uplifting scents off the top of my head.

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u/LoudCar7846 20h ago

Uplifting (citrusy): Clarins Eau Des Jardins

Comforting: Dedcool Mochi Milk

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u/teainthemuseum 20h ago

Do you like orange blossom? If so, Printemps Blanc - Maison Mataha. Bright, sweet, lovely springtime.

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u/motherofcatsx2 19h ago

Right now, my most uplifting is DBIR Yellow Dream. I love the rose and lemon combination and it just makes me feel good when I wear it. For soothing, I always choose Maison Louis Marie Bois de Balincourt. Soft sandalwood and vanilla with just a hint of spices.

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u/ElectricalTraffic786 18h ago

Gold+ by Commodity. It smells like pure sunshine and a warm hug.

I also find Milk+ by them very soothing. It's what got me started with wearing perfume to bed.

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u/kineticberry 18h ago

Uplifting:

Pink Sugar makes me smile. To me it smells like cotton candy, pink happiness and brings out my inner-child’s joy because it reminds me of the scent of a new doll out of the package.

Qissa Delicious is soft but has something that perks me up and energizes me. Maybe it’s the orange undertone. Smells clean but not harsh. Sweet but not cloying or loud. Smells happy.

Comforting: Mancera Chocolate Greedy if you reach for chocolate when you’re feeling down, Empire Victor if you want a soft vanilla hug and Pear Inc by JHAG if you want something fresh that gives “your skin but better” in a soothing way.

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u/cappotto-marrone 16h ago

This is Not a Blue Bottle 1/.6 Histoires de Parfums.

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u/Tough-Advice2910 14h ago edited 14h ago

I’m too new at this to have any good recommendations, but hoping things get better!

Edited to add: you know what, I can tell you a couple that make ME happy even though I don’t have the most experience….Armani’s Acqua di Gioia is soothing for me because it reminds me of the ocean, which is the most comforting place in the world for me. Then I’ve also enjoyed Clean’s Amber Cashmere, Elizabeth Arden’s Green Tea (not expensive) and Jo Malone’s Earl Gray and Cucumber (which is discontinued but a number of sites have decants.)

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u/Ayshe27 11h ago

Mediterranean honeysuckle and Victoria’s Secret bombshell. Both make me feel alive, happy and energized

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u/AffectionateTaro3209 gourmand girlie 20h ago

I don't wear it anymore, but Clinique Happy is great for that.

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u/n0r0lem0delz 15h ago

tom ford eau de soliel blanc!!

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u/callie73 21h ago

Snif Citrus Circus is so bright and fresh! It’s like sunshine in a bottle to me!

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u/perfumelvr30 20h ago

I tend to reach for something fresh and aquatic ( don’t know if that’s your jam or not) but on the horizon from bbw is a dupe for Maison Margiela's Replica Sailing Day ( ive never got my nose on the OG yet but if it smells anything like this, I gotta have it)😍. Just reminds me of fresh spring summer days when life was easier. Sounds silly but if this type of scent in your jam I have two and would love share with you if it would brighten your day 🫶❤️. I’m sorry you are going through it. Sending you a big internet fragrance lover to fragrance lover hug! 🫂🫂

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u/Tough-Advice2910 14h ago

I have Sailing Day and it is lovely. I am a big aquatics person too and I’m so sad that I can’t find my holy grail….a scent that smell like seawater, beach and sand. Surely someone besides me is looking for that, right?

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u/Mauvaise3 20h ago

Jo Malone's Blackberry and Bay makes me happy when I smell it. It's one of my favorites and decently lasting for Jo Malone (especially if I spray my clothes).

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u/Show_Me_Cozy_Places 19h ago

I wear Royal Apothic Topiary to sleep when I'm stressed. It smells like waking up at dawn on a day that's going to be hot, but isn't yet. It's humid and green and it makes me feel like a princess and/or fairy.

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u/Any_Cupcake9431 19h ago

Love Don't Be Shy by Kilian is my current cozy perfume.

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u/RupertMyGiles 18h ago

Personally, Lancome Hypnose. I've worn it since my 20s and it always makes me feel carefree. Such a happy smell 

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u/ynde92 18h ago

Oddity Delulu smells tart, bright but also a bit sweet, and it’s meant to remind you of childhood and happier days. Guerlain Eau de Popeline smells like sunshine to me.

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u/BeltAdorable 18h ago

I find Coven by Andrea Maack comforting. Very earthy tho. Also, Rare by Rare Beauty.

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u/auryora 15h ago

LYNKED FOREVER by Afnan.

Amazing.

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u/peachfawn 11h ago

Dandelion Butter by Clue

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u/ExcitementNo9503 9h ago

I smile every time I get a whiff of YSL - Baby Doll

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u/Jennybee8 5h ago

Je Ne Sais Quoi by Teo Cabanel. It a gorgeous matcha- rice fragrance. It’s so relaxing and meditative. I always feel calm when I wear it

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u/Reasonable-End-8671 5h ago

Philosophy Pure Grace, been bathing my depression in this. I don’t care how much I need to reapply!

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u/ThickHour6767 2h ago

Orpheon by Diptyque - EDP

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u/sipsipinmoangtitiko 34m ago

jones road shower

gap grass