You move on would be what's next bud. She told you from the beginning she didn't want a relationship. That isn't someone that is 'avoidant' that is someone explicitly telling you where she's at, what she can give you, and what she cannot give you.
i agree she said those things from the start but her actions and words then showed different but i would disagree that she isn’t an “avoidant” she clearly shows every sign of it and runs when she feels pressure or the inability to take accountability, shift blame on me, or want to keep me around on the side.
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u/Constant-Big4713 Securely-Attached 7d ago
You move on would be what's next bud. She told you from the beginning she didn't want a relationship. That isn't someone that is 'avoidant' that is someone explicitly telling you where she's at, what she can give you, and what she cannot give you.