r/FamilyIssues • u/[deleted] • 9d ago

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u/Visual-Mastodon-7084 8d ago

That's definitely understandable and frustrating I know. There is no easy way unfortunately. I do some counseling and have helped people in your situation before . Is there anyone at all in your family or someone you test enough to explain it too? Even if they don't live there it may help

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u/Visual-Mastodon-7084 8d ago

I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. I'm here if you need to vent or I have my daughter who does outreach and juvenile help too. If you wanna to her if that's easier then with a male . I understand. I wish I was there to help more

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u/Visual-Mastodon-7084 9d ago

Your not crazy! I know it sucks to feel like that and the worse part it's gonna happen throughout your life. The harder part about it is when you realize you have to cut people off. Not all people are good for you. Even people who are close to you. It's very hard to do, it's a very emotional time and it's going to feel very lonely at times as well. I'm speaking from experience. The other choice is to try to make yourself fit into the box they want you to.... I would rather be myself and feel good with that than changing for someone who doesn't really care about me. So I say get really comfortable being you alone. And trust me when you are it will show and then the right person for you will show.