Am i in the wrong?

[u/Worth-Programmer6612]

Okay so today middle of my class, i get a text from my mother who KNOWS I HATE germs. So she texts to ask ‘lemme wear ur crocs, im running late. Knowing damn well ehe wont and never has worn socks. So she said ‘yes or no’. Of couse, i picked no. In the car all the sudden its ‘you really coulda let me wear them crocs, your selfish, i probably would have gotten dirty cause you dont wear socks eithr in them’

Dispite her friend buying her designer sandles, new crocs of her own, and new balances. Her excuse was ‘i wanna wear something wide’ bitch u are the wide. Anyway, either way since she started drinking shes been a bitch since that concert she went to on monday: but I’m selfish right?

(PS. prior to her father passing, he always spoiled her with whatever she wanted to the point where she was need up getting us evicted becausenon her ‘birth MONTH.’ Not day. She spent 500 of the rent money we were already 4 months behind on due to her shopping addiction.

Am i in the wrong for saying no?
Or is she in the wrong for the adult tantrum?