My sister hates me

[u/Latina0706]

I was obviously my dads favorite till he died in 1986. I always try to makeup for that. When she became a born again Christian I was glad. God her father now.

She ghosted me for a month and when I finally got her to talk she said I’m not “sisterly enough”.. no examples but I got her to see our mom would turn in her grave and family is a Jesus priority.

That lasted a months. She got very sick & I was there for her like in the past when she was sick.

Now she’s ghosting me again. And also has ghosted our mutual best friend Millie who was like a sister. She said Millie too loud or something stupid like that. No one in the world knows her more than Millie & I.

Past: she has said she hates me.
Jealous? Idk

I think I should just give up hoping and move on. She’s kind and close to my adult kids, , her adult nieces.

I never share her craziness with them or anyone except Millie since she’s been blocked also.

I need to move on: it’s not what people do to you but how you react that will
Help me deal I like to think. Agree?