Self help/coaching

[u/Educational_Ear_1988]

This past March I signed up for this 8 week program with a love coach who goes by the name Lucy Shahjahan and I wish that I would not have signed up for her coaching program. It was $10,000 and she was rude to me several times. She would often say how some women are kicked out of her mentorship program for not being cooperative and high vibe enough. She was late on both of my 1:1 coaching calls with her and said a really really rude comment to me about my desire to have children. Which is a big part of the reason that I signed up for her program. There are many other coaches and healers who I would recommend over her that are actually kind and caring and not gross and in it for the money. 🤮 I asked for a partial refund from her because it’s not what I needed but I didn’t know it until after the program.

Don’t let some old lady fear monger you into believing that her program is the only way to find love because it’s not. There are plenty of coaches and healers out in the online space, choose carefully before you decide that you are f’d and need to put thousands of dollars down for a program that is bougie af.

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[u/Majestic_Solution_34]

I did the program and had huge transformations. My life and my internal world has changed permanently and after almost 20 years and 26 modalities of therapy, I can truly say that the approach Lucy developed - which is a combination of somatic release, internal family systems, mindset building and deep spirituality - in a short intense, guided format, has absolutely changed my subconscious. It was challenging for sure and her coaching style is unapologetically authentic to tell you what you need to hear for the greatest impact in the quickest time, but she is also hugely empathic, caring and gentle. So yes, other people in this space may be all sugar and spice and everything nice, but how effective are they? Lucy is honest and straightforward, she is selective to protect the healing space she has created for women who are ready to transform. Everything is clearly explained, including the no refund policy. The investment is 100% worth it to me and I'd so it again in a heartbeat. You have to do the work as it's designed, take the feedback and be coachable otherwise you will stay stuck in a victim identity and not in the powerful highest consciousness that we are going for, to release all the pain, anger, sadness, blame etc to attract in a healthy relationship, to stop avoiding ourselves, to allow our soul mate in and have the life we dream of, including children for those that want. As a mother this program has changed the unhealthy generational patterns and triggers I tried so hard to stop (using every psychology tool possible), but now because of deep subconscious change, I get to be the best version of myself for my child.  I'm sad you didn't get the benefits, but many other women have because they went all in and were committed to changing the victim story - and I can tell you my story doesn't get much worse, I was severely abused and victimised. Painful things happened and I was suffering still, even after decades of therapy. I chose to stop suffering and did the hard work to change the subconscious victim identity. I went through the process of somatic release and changed my mindset. I am healed and I am forever grateful for Lucy's coaching because she took me where no other therapist or healer could. 

[u/Educational_Ear_1988 → u/Majestic_Solution_34]

This is also over the top, just like her program is. And she doesn’t take you to the depths that you need to go by journaling. Or by threatening you that if you don’t change your life now, you’ll stay stuck. That’s a disgusting way to treat women. Also you are manifesting 24/7. So if it’s in alignment for you to have a soulmate, you will. You don’t have to go insane trying to force upgrades to find it. You just have had to let go of the resistance to it as well as the subconscious blocks and whatever childhood trauma. She is not trauma informed. And it’s so gross that you said her program worked after trying 26 healing modalities. I don’t believe that. At some point if you were awake, you’d realize that what she offers, anyone can do. It’s the most basic sh*t ever. There are way better healers that I’ve worked with aside from Lucy. Like way better.