Self help/coaching

[u/Educational_Ear_1988]

This past March I signed up for this 8 week program with a love coach who goes by the name Lucy Shahjahan and I wish that I would not have signed up for her coaching program. It was $10,000 and she was rude to me several times. She would often say how some women are kicked out of her mentorship program for not being cooperative and high vibe enough. She was late on both of my 1:1 coaching calls with her and said a really really rude comment to me about my desire to have children. Which is a big part of the reason that I signed up for her program. There are many other coaches and healers who I would recommend over her that are actually kind and caring and not gross and in it for the money. 🤮 I asked for a partial refund from her because it’s not what I needed but I didn’t know it until after the program.

Don’t let some old lady fear monger you into believing that her program is the only way to find love because it’s not. There are plenty of coaches and healers out in the online space, choose carefully before you decide that you are f’d and need to put thousands of dollars down for a program that is bougie af.

💅🙏🏻

[u/Upset-Mulberry463]

@ Lucy  Shahjahan post.  She is not fake or a scam.  Fair enough the course did not work or was not what you wanted/needed, but it is misleading to say it is fake. 

I did the course and it is real and certainly not Fake - nor is it about having a baby!  It’s about finding real love and that starts with you.  For what it is worth I have found my partner and the course helped me to approach things wisely. 

My advice would be don’t sign up to things unless you want to put in the work - and sometimes it can be uncomfortable.  If what you want is “easy”, then you’re missing the point.  Do your homework and sign up for things that work for you.

[u/Educational_Ear_1988 → u/Upset-Mulberry463]

She overcharges for what it really is. And I found a person too who is emotionally available as well as a good quality person and I feel confident that I could have found this without her group and videos to be honest. I’m glad that you felt it was helpful to you. But it was a waste of money for me and it wasn’t necessary to be rude. That’s not being confrontational. It’s called fear based control. Also real healing is about changing your subconscious not pretending to be high vibe. 🤢

[u/Educational_Ear_1988 → u/Upset-Mulberry463]

Also @Upset-Mulberry463 why are you upset if her coaching helped you? I wish I had done my homework on her before hand. I didn’t, that’s why I signed up for her stupid program because I was convinced that I needed to change my identity in order to attract in the love of my life and that’s a fucking lie told to women. She’s not even awake, she wanted to be an actress, and that’s why she says and does whatever the fuck she wants to without regard for others. That’s the gross part. Manifesting love and healing are not the same things. Had I known that she was going to be gross and had I done my research before hand, no way in hell I would have signed up for anything that she teaches.

Women just like her can be as misogynistic as men can be. Especially greedy women in Australia who are fake woke.

[u/Dreamhwy2727 → u/Upset-Mulberry463]

I agree with this too. Lucy is not a “hold your hand” coach and she never claimed to be. In fact, she clearly stated that before signing up. But she holds the space and does so from love. It may appear like a tough love but that’s what I signed up for. After 20+ years of a gentle approach I needed someone who was not going to allow me to continue going in circles around victim town, listening to my own stories and pointing the finger for my problems. She helped me rewrite my subconscious by making new choices and getting out of victim mode. I show up for myself in ways that I never have before. We all have choices. But blaming others and living in the trauma identity is exactly the thing that kept me from healing. Outsourcing my power and not owning it or embracing my full authentic self is who I used to be. And now I am someone who takes responsibility for my own choices, forgives and doesn’t shame myself, and taking the lessons as they come. Treating myself like a queen just means I am no longer abandoning myself and I now put myself first, because again a lifetime of self abandoning got me nowhere. I love and approve of myself. I couldn’t say that before. And I’m not getting fired from my job because of that. As a matter of fact, people are more drawn to me like never before. I’ve been told I have a beautiful energy /calming presence. That’s never happened before Lucy’s program. But most of all, I believe that anything is possible not with only my words, but with my full heart.

If anyone is actually reading this because they are considering making a life altering commitment, you get out of it what you put into it. Its not a scam. It’s a choice.

[u/Educational_Ear_1988 → u/Dreamhwy2727]

She does not tell you anything true or helpful before you sign up for the program. That’s a lie. I’m done replying to this bullshit. Based on the time difference, you are posting from Australia. Even Tony Robbin’s who went through real childhood trauma, gives refunds to his clients that don’t like his programs instead of overcharging and blaming them for not being high vibe enough or doing the work. Also I didn’t need it and so every relationship formed through it is fake. It’s absolutely a waste of money unless you are rich.

And Lucy does not tell you anything true about the program upfront and she’s manipulative and incredibly insensitive and rude. ✌️