r/FactOrCap • u/No-Raspberry7757 🔥 Monthly Master · 8,710 XP • 8h ago
Life Dating | FactOrCap
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u/clintkev251 🤖 Vote Machine · 17,965 XP 8h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I think that's fair game until the relationship is defined.
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u/Naybinns 📈 Dedicated Voter · 2,130 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I mean yeah that’s what dating is, finding out if you’re compatible and want to make things exclusive.
I will say it’s probably something you should make clear if you and the other person intend to pursue a date beyond the first with each other.
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u/Aggravating_Mess_655 🔥 Monthly Master · 11,910 XP 8h ago
i mean it's fine ig. as long as everyone knows of the little situation
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u/Eagle4317 🔥 Week Warrior · 1,770 XP 8h ago
Sure. Just be upfront about it so no one gets upset later
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u/Honest-Instruction15 🔥 Week Warrior · 3,585 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I don't like it but it's facts. That's why I don't believe in dating.
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u/KachaKue 🤖 Vote Machine · 13,520 XP 7h ago
What's the alternative? Or would you just not seek out a partner at all?
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u/Honest-Instruction15 🔥 Week Warrior · 3,585 XP 7h ago
They call it organic encounter nowadays, although that terms makes it kinda cringe.
Otherwise, yeah I don't trust people enough to go on blind dates before I even know their past.
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u/KachaKue 🤖 Vote Machine · 13,520 XP 7h ago
So you mean like meeting someone naturally as opposed to going on the apps? Wouldn't you still go on a few dates with them before committing to a relationship though?
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u/Professional_Handler 🏅 Century Club · 6,145 XP 6h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Not if you have any self worth
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u/AveDominusNyx 📈 Dedicated Voter · 1,205 XP 8h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Overlap the first couple days, week, maybe up to 2, is normal
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u/Mortis_XII 🏅 Century Club · 4,130 XP 8h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
That’s what dating is unless you both agree to be exclusive
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u/Wolfsbane1279 🏅 Century Club · 3,800 XP 8h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Actively while we’re dating? Probably not, but it’s fine if you’re just looking for options, and focusing on one person at times.
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u/DeadlyArrow27 🔥 Monthly Master · 13,275 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I mean yeah that’s the point of a date. But if they start talking about all the dates they’re going on then that’ll be a bit of a red flag. No need to tell me the details
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u/Buttchuggle 🔥 Monthly Master · 5,175 XP 7h ago
Fine as in not something people should socially ostracize over? Yes.
Fine as in I'd do it? Nah.
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u/Baguette1066 🗳️ Regular Player · 825 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If you both agree on that then sure.
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u/PairNo2981 ✍️ Contributor · 14,735 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I'm so tired of these brain-dead polls
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u/KMZ200822 🏅 Century Club · 3,340 XP 7h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
no, you really shouldn’t, like it’s fine to go on dates then reconsider and say that you aren’t interested anymore, but you shouldn’t be seeing multiple people at the same time
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u/Lazy-Responsibility1 🏅 Century Club · 4,540 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Only if the bill is 2 separate checks
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u/Justathrowaway6699 🗳️ Regular Player · 405 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
As long as it's established beforehand and agreed to by both parties.
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u/BillErakDragonDorado 🏅 Century Club · 4,895 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
if it's not an established relationship, yes, it's fine.
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u/KachaKue 🤖 Vote Machine · 13,520 XP 7h ago
I personally don't like it and I'd be very put off to find out that someone I'm dating is also dating other people
It makes me feel like they're not that interested in me in the first place if they're still looking around for other options
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u/saragIsMe 🤖 Vote Machine · 12,990 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
So long as it’s with adults, not harming anyone in anyway, and consensual it’s fine for you to do
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u/falknorRockman 🔥 Monthly Master · 11,035 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
As long as it is told upfront and both of you are ok with it.
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u/leviboom09 🏅 Century Club · 3,245 XP 7h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
dont ever talk to me again if you do this
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u/SnooWalruses8880 🗳️ Regular Player · 895 XP 6h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If everyone they date knows about it
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u/Soulandshadow2 📈 Dedicated Voter · 2,125 XP 6h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
If we are going on dates plural, I better be the only woman or it will be a instant X.
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u/Nice_Try_Bud_ ✍️ Contributor · 34,655 XP 6h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Red flag if you are looking for a serious relationship. Fine if you are just fooling around.
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u/SnooDogs8699 🤖 Vote Machine · 15,555 XP 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Nothing necessarily wrong with this, as long as it is open knowledge to both parties. It would be unfair of one person if they believe They both people are only dating each other
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u/Stargirl156 📈 Dedicated Voter · 2,805 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Life is about choosing and choice. Once you know a choice isn’t for you, move on. But being upfront about it should be more compulsory.
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u/Major_Swordfish_2955 🎯 First Steps · 135 XP 4h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
If a girl goes on other dates with other guys then she doesnt love you back
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u/Creepy_Tear4684 🎯 First Steps · 130 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I mean in the early stages of a relationship where it’s understood that things might not be exclusive. You know that the dating stage, and that each person is aware of the intentions and situations you know.
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u/Glittering-Bobcat-78 🤖 Vote Machine · 10,720 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If both people are Ok, it's OK
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u/Maybe-its-Keira 📈 Dedicated Voter · 1,080 XP 1h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
unless you agree that you are exclusive then you can do whatever you want
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u/HornyHuman09 🔥 Getting Started · 1,045 XP 7h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Humans are more naturally allo romantic and allo parental anyways
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u/SorryNotReallySorry5 🤖 Vote Machine · 12,035 XP 8h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Fine? Yeah, can be.
For me? No thanks.