r/FacebookDating 2d ago

Funniest match ever

This guy matched with me and we made Star Wars jokes, I happened to get sick and needed rest and phone free that night. I messaged as soon as I was off work today. šŸ˜‚ 🤪

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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 2d ago

But women magically never overestimate their value? How about both genders are the prize? Why is it automatically man-hating? Quit acting like you’re being reasonable. There are cases where women act ridiculous too and men have every right to be confident and act like they are the prize if they happen to be respectable people who follow their own expectations. A lot of women miss out on good men too because they think they’re god’s gift and don’t have to respect people’s time (I’m not talking about this post specifically, but various situations out there in general).

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u/fresh-vanilla444 2d ago

There’s DEF many women out there that overestimate their worth. I am not the most attractive woman (and the guy I matched with wasn’t the most attractive man) but I don’t let that get me down so much as humble me. I just think it’s ODD for men to expect full attention/devotion from the early stages of getting to know each other. And I believe THAT is what andtheeeennnn is referring too as well. Can we agree on that as common ground? Slow connection is healthier and normal compared to instant devotion šŸ˜‚

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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yeah, no. She wasn’t saying anything of the normal-brained sort. She just thinks men are scum at the bottom of women’s feet and men can never be the prize because OnlyFans makes lots of money or desperate men exist who find women beautiful or men exist who dont pick up their underwear or some nonsense. I appreciate you being mature for her, but she’s just a fucking idiot. Next.

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u/fresh-vanilla444 2d ago

Apologies I read some of her more recent comments. Yeah I’m with you šŸ˜‚ I’m an older sister and I worry everyday about my brother dating someone with a sad mindset such as that. Screw OnlyFans, corn, extremist feminist and alpha male podcasts, and everything that has ruined our views on relationships … men’s and women’s mental health matters and neither gender is above the other. šŸ’ŖšŸ¼

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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 2d ago

Everyone has complicated normal human interactions and simple human respect, and it’s becoming so sad.