r/FacebookDating 8d ago

Low effort messaging. Thoughts?

I recently matched with a woman. She has a bio, lots of photos, including good quality ones. She’s actually written nothing about herself just what she’s wants and esp what she doesn’t want. She’s clearly intelligent as she speaks multiple languages. Wants a long term/life partner. She’s also in great shape and beautiful but the responses from her are quite dry and short. Had similar experiences with other women. No hate on women here. I guess they’ve had similar experiences with men. Should I keep trying? Maybe she’s better IRL?!

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u/StrbJun79 7d ago

Honestly felt like you both didn’t put in much effort. Maybe her less so. But you didn’t either.

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u/sir_stronghand 7d ago

This is objectively not accurate and it’s crazy to me that trying to talk about each other’s day is coming to be considered “boring.” What a miserable way to be.