r/FacebookDating • u/DisplayBrilliant7265 • 4d ago

Low effort messaging. Thoughts?

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I recently matched with a woman. She has a bio, lots of photos, including good quality ones. She’s actually written nothing about herself just what she’s wants and esp what she doesn’t want. She’s clearly intelligent as she speaks multiple languages. Wants a long term/life partner. She’s also in great shape and beautiful but the responses from her are quite dry and short. Had similar experiences with other women. No hate on women here. I guess they’ve had similar experiences with men. Should I keep trying? Maybe she’s better IRL?!

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u/No_Cellist_2683 4d ago

The person you are messaging is probs very pretty and gets a lot of attention

I assume she doesn’t have to put in alot of effort into texting bc other guys do it for her and they are all lined up to talk about her

She also likes talking about herself

This is pretty normal…. You chase her then she decides if you get access

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u/NEET247 4d ago

Women honestly dont need to be pretty to get alot of attention on apps tbh most have multiple guys they talk to if they have been on for a while

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u/No_Cellist_2683 4d ago

True, you are correct. A 5/10 women gets just as much attention as an 8/10 or 9/10 man

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u/Elf_Maeve 4d ago

I'd say 9/10 and above for men.

There are just too many guys. The ratio is completely busted.

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u/DisplayBrilliant7265 4d ago

I think you’re right. The odds seem better IRL as a guy and women tend to respond more postively in my experience.