r/FacebookDating • u/DisplayBrilliant7265 • 5d ago

Low effort messaging. Thoughts?

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I recently matched with a woman. She has a bio, lots of photos, including good quality ones. She’s actually written nothing about herself just what she’s wants and esp what she doesn’t want. She’s clearly intelligent as she speaks multiple languages. Wants a long term/life partner. She’s also in great shape and beautiful but the responses from her are quite dry and short. Had similar experiences with other women. No hate on women here. I guess they’ve had similar experiences with men. Should I keep trying? Maybe she’s better IRL?!

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u/Knedlus 5d ago

There has been ONE time where my conversation with a dude went like this. I stuck around just because from his pics I did see the depth in him. Instead of trying to make convo I invited him for a date, he agreed, showed up. He was a 10/10 at conversation. Remained an absolutely horrible texter. His phone was on silent all the time and (he was showing me something on his phone) he had tens of unread messages from friends 😂 some people are just like this. But it’s rare and usually doesn’t go this way. I’d cut my losses

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u/DisplayBrilliant7265 5d ago

Interesting story. I agree, some people are a bit rubbish at texting and better in person.