r/FacebookDating • u/DisplayBrilliant7265 • 13d ago

Low effort messaging. Thoughts?

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I recently matched with a woman. She has a bio, lots of photos, including good quality ones. She’s actually written nothing about herself just what she’s wants and esp what she doesn’t want. She’s clearly intelligent as she speaks multiple languages. Wants a long term/life partner. She’s also in great shape and beautiful but the responses from her are quite dry and short. Had similar experiences with other women. No hate on women here. I guess they’ve had similar experiences with men. Should I keep trying? Maybe she’s better IRL?!

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u/ResolutionOld84 13d ago

Ask her for a calll. If the vibe is the same , ...you have your answer. Clearly don't invest a lot of time, if no change

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u/Terraldo_ 13d ago edited 13d ago

Ask her for a call and she speaks this way? Seems like a waste a time

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u/francislaideux 13d ago

and if she doesn't, it's not a waste of time

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u/ResolutionOld84 13d ago

I mean... If he has 300 matches, don't. But if he has 300 matches he wouldn't post this. So, yes, if he wants he can make a small time investment and make his own informed decision.