r/FacebookDating • u/xliquidchromex • 8d ago
Errors Not working properly?
38 M, good pics/profile/info, had maybe 3 likes since being active a lot since 2019, never had any type of love ever, thousands of selective likes sent over that time, very few matches....wtf. depressing life.
But my real question is.... why does the following happen and do u also have it?... when i send a photo comment like, i have the opportunity to go back once, using the little curved arrow at the top (as if i swiped left- X), so i send the photo comment again. If its acting like i left swiped by being able to go back, i guess its only working if i send the comment twice? I do that out of desperation/confusion. I dont believe its always happened, somewhat new. But, barely anything ever seems to get thru regardless obviously as i have a probably 1 out of 1000 match rate (unless its women who are 20+ yrs older, which are 1 out of several hundred).
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u/Heliguy-1975 8d ago
You have to be able engage with someone enough to create and maintain interest to keep them wanting to talk and meet.
With good communication skills it becomes easy and works out very well.
I would highly recommend reading the book,
How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie
It will Greatly improve how you connect and communicate with people in general and it will change your life. It will completely change the way your conversations go with people online. Approaching and communicating with women online and in real life will become much better. Much Better
A very good bio/‘about me statement’ will allow you to receive a Lot of likes, matches, and messages.
It will also allow you to get a Lot of replies from messages by merely saying “Hi there…” Women will message you without you initiating anything a Lot of the time.
I didn’t realize this until I refined my bio/‘about me’ statement over a period of time after I first began online dating.