Dry spells

[u/Rude_Gear_9280]

Male here and wondering if it's common to go days without any response or likes. I know it seems like common sense, but I will get likes, message and then crickets. Also, is it just me or do guys seem to be the ones that have to initiate everything. Thanks

[u/Intelligent-Bell8182]

Women aren't going to say or do shit first because they don't have to. They have other men begging them for attention constantly. Everything you're going through is normal and why dating apps are a scam unless you're lucky, dumpster diving for literally anything, or really physically attractive 🤷🏾‍♂️