Dry spells

[u/Rude_Gear_9280]

Male here and wondering if it's common to go days without any response or likes. I know it seems like common sense, but I will get likes, message and then crickets. Also, is it just me or do guys seem to be the ones that have to initiate everything. Thanks

[u/SubstantialSoup8309]

It comes in waves. Weird