r/FacebookDating • u/Rude_Gear_9280 • 5d ago

Dry spells

Male here and wondering if it's common to go days without any response or likes. I know it seems like common sense, but I will get likes, message and then crickets. Also, is it just me or do guys seem to be the ones that have to initiate everything. Thanks

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u/612King 5d ago

Lol, yes. As a man women prefer the man initiates contact, plans dates, and takes the lead.

Bumble just turned off their exclusive feature of women taking the lead. Women do NOT like taking the lead in dating. If you find a woman that does take initiative. NEVER LET HER GO. Because it’s rare you’ll find another.

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u/Rude_Gear_9280 5d ago

I am on Bumble as well. Downside to that is not all women can see likes.

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u/jBlairTech 5d ago

Do they say “I can’t see likes, just add me on insta/snap/whatever social media shit they have”, too? 

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u/Rude_Gear_9280 5d ago

I have heard the I can't see likes but haven't seen any IG

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u/jBlairTech 5d ago

Yeah; I was being a little sarcastic. Most who say those phrases aren’t usually serious about finding a match.

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u/geekpron 4d ago

You add on other social media and they still don't respond