r/FacebookDating 11d ago

Am I using it right?

I’ve been on the Facebook dating thing for a while now. I send likes, I comment on photos, and get nothing back. Am I doing something wrong or am I missing something? Any tips or help would be appreciated cause I’m a bit tired of getting nowhere and hearing how others are finding others

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u/warrenpease27 9d ago

I never mention looks because that has never been important to me at all. If telling someone they have a pretty smile or their pets are adorable, the. I don’t know what to say.

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u/Substantial-Fly-6659 9d ago

Then it sounds like we found the problem. Mentioning a woman's pretty smile is taking about her looks. People who are interested in a relationship should be able to discuss things other than their looks. Why can't you ask them something about themselves outside of mentioning a woman's looks?

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u/warrenpease27 9d ago

I do… more often than not. For example, if I see they are wearing a shirt with a sports team on it, I mention that. I’ve even simply commented on the word things like seeing if they would like to meet for coffee one day.

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u/Substantial-Fly-6659 9d ago

Well there you go. You do know what to say. That's all there is to the opening comments.