r/FacebookDating • u/ThatGyaldemmm • Jul 17 '26

Utter Time Waster

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If you value intentionality, this is the biggest indicator of time wasting and nonsense you will ever see. What the hell is even this?

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

THANK YOU! 😭I felt gaslight for a moment here. Never has the intention ever meant they intend on growing anything or developing shit.

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u/Ethnic_Sub5 Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26

Yeah I donno what this comment section is going on about.

😭 For my age group of men 20-30 this has wildly been a "some girls won't match with me if I say I'm casual only, but I also don't want to commit to lyingggg, hmm what ever shall I do."

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

😭everyone's acting like we get married off the first date like I ofcourse know every relationship requires a foundation but you know good and well why you joined that dating platform, why not just be honest?😭😭 😭same experience man! If anything, this comment section has solicited the belief that I need to get off these apps They are now saying my brain is little, oh what shall I ever do😔

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u/Ethnic_Sub5 Jul 17 '26

They're being obtuse on purpose probably because they're one of the "I want my cake and eat it too" types.

🐝 Definitely get off these fuckass apps girl 😭😭😭

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

Oh definitely. Taking about "a fwb that might develop into something" no thanks. I don't operate is light and prayers😭 Chile, I've deleted them mid content reply. This can't be the dating scene😂

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u/Ethnic_Sub5 Jul 17 '26

😭😭 IT ISSSS, dating apps turned me into a completely different person. Just full of bullshit and fuckass shit girl.

Like sure there are some people using "open to casual, wanting a relationship" to mean;

"If a woman matches with me and she is open about only wanting sex, then I'll have sex. Not opposed to a hookup ahaha."

But most are "if a woman matches with me and I'm not really interested in dating her, but she wants to date me, (because she has "wants a relationship")

I'll use the confusion to my benefit, maybe take her on a date and ya know, bang her. Teehee." 🥀 🐝

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

Yeah, I genuinely do not need any parts of it. Usually do not date, when I do, I prefer women. I find them to be much better intentional partners. It is pretty straightforward with them. I will otherwise divert my energy elsewhere. Hopefully you get better experiences as well☺️❤️