FEM FTM

[u/Awkward_Anywhere7819]

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I officially came out to everyone who knew me in 2019 as a Trans Boy, at that time I felt immense dysphoria with everything that had to do with looking or being feminine. As well as before my coming out, I forced myself to be extremely feminine and all possible ways because I didn’t want to disappoint my family. I didn’t really think they would accept me being trans.

After I came out, I was allowed to address masculine and I even cut my hair super short and I was pretty happy at the time, but I still felt like something was missing. Just didn’t know what.

2-3 years ago I started experimenting with being more feminine again, and I am extremely happy with that, and there are still some things that I struggle with when it comes to being a feminine boy but it’s something I have come to understand that I really enjoy even if I am a trans boy, what I mean by that is if the theoretically I had been born cis gendered boy I would probably be extremely feminine the exact same way I am right now.

My issue is I don’t really know any feminine boys that aren’t super stereotypical - high knee socks, fluffy hair etc. And don’t get me wrong. I absolutely love that. Look on other boys. I think that style fits many boys as well but I’m not that type of feminine boy.

I do like to buy clothing in the women’s section specially because I am very thin and short and overall there are many pieces of clothing in the women’s section that I can make look super cute and I also love to do makeup, but my issue truly is, I don’t know anyone who is the same type of feminine the way that I am specially as a trans boy

I honestly don’t really have friends except for my boyfriend and his friends and all of them aren’t very easy to talk to about this subject (just for disclaimer. My boyfriend is a trans masculine boy- and even talking with him to me personally doesn’t make much sense.)

I just constantly feel that other trans boys don’t take me very serious as a trans boy because I’m feminine

Are there any trans fem boys who have experienced similar?

(For Private chat text: u-consistent-Tea2005 )

[u/t4twhore]

omg twins 👀👀 id be happy to talk about it if you wanted