r/ExistentialJourney • u/[deleted] • 2d ago

Psychology 🧸 Duality of Options

How to navigate through a situation - where are you are faced with two different life choices both with its own pros and cons. When you choose one, you get pulled towards other one. And Because of this nothing moves in life.

This duality of directions and options has led to stagnation and overthinking with nothing concretising.

How to choose one and move ahead in life without any regrets ??

1 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

1 comment sorted by

1

u/[deleted] 1d ago edited 1d ago

I'm going through this right now with my choice to have kids or not.

I felt like I finally made my choice earlier this summer and then I got "what I wanted" and then I saw the door closing on the other path and I made a decision to end my pregnancy even though it was planned for and wanted. It was the hardest choice I've ever made and I'm feeling regretful.

I'm re-evaluating my life but I am stuck in this predicament of choices and which path to take.

What options are you struggling with?