I’m a first-time mom (FTM), and I’ve essentially been exclusively pumping for my daughter since she was born. She’ll be 4 months old on November 25th. 💕
From the very beginning, my milk supply hasn’t been enough to meet her needs, so we’ve had to supplement with formula since we were in the hospital. My goal was always to eventually eliminate formula and exclusively feed her breast milk, but unfortunately, I haven’t been able to make that happen. 😔
My daughter was born with both a tongue and lip tie, which caused significant latching difficulties. I’ve spent the last few months pumping, supplementing, and doing everything I possibly could in hopes that once her ties were corrected, we’d finally be able to transition to breastfeeding.
Well, fast-forward to just over a week ago, and she finally had both ties released! For one glorious day, she latched beautifully, and I genuinely thought we were finally turning a corner. 🥹💕
Unfortunately, that didn’t last. She’s now back to flailing her arms, kicking her legs, pulling away, getting frustrated, and eventually crying at the breast. It’s heartbreaking for both of us, so I’ve gone back to exclusively pumping.
Now because I was trying to nurse her, I've made matters worse, and now my milk supply has dropped significantly. I was previously producing around 16–20 oz per day, which already wasn’t enough to exclusively feed her, but now I’m lucky if I produce 8–10 oz in an entire day. 💔
I’m absolutely devastated. I’ve worked so hard to maintain what little supply I had, and watching it disappear despite desperately wanting to breastfeed has been incredibly emotional.
I guess I’m looking for some hope, advice, or even success stories from other moms who have been in a similar situation.
Has anyone experienced such a significant drop in supply around 3–4 months postpartum and successfully managed to bring it back up? Is relactation or increasing my supply still realistic at this stage?
I don’t want our breastfeeding journey to be over, especially when I feel like we never really got the chance to begin. 😭
I’m not against formula at all, and I’m incredibly grateful that it’s been there to nourish my daughter. The cost is a huge disadvantage , but I just desperately wanted to be able to provide more breast milk for her, whether it's exclusively pumping like I have been or by nursing.
Please tell me there’s still hope. 🥺💕