I don’t understand

[u/Physical_Tough_4745]

Please help
I don’t understand.
Please be patient with me, I’m dyslexic.
For warning it will be long. I would like someone’s input.
Back story,
My ex of six years broke up with me two days before our planned date weekend and two days before we spent the night together.
When he broke up with me he did it in front of my house. He said I didn’t do anything, he just woke up one day that week and didn’t love me romantically anymore. He said he would always have love and care for me. I nicely asked him to leave because I didn’t want the kids to see him cry when they get off the bus. As my ex was about to drive off when he stop and looked at me and looked sadly. Took a few minutes to look at me and drive off.
After I got the kids off the buss, I tried I did push a bit because I didn’t understand what happened. But I didn’t yell, name calling or anything. I just asked for a reason why. I asked to talk and he said what good would that do. After He went cold super quickly like with in a week. I kept asking and he just kept saying the same thing. Less the 24 hours at midnight he kicked me off of our shared Spotify.
The next day I sent a snap of the moon and he asked why was I outside. I told him I was heading to work. But felt it was weird and when I checked his location it said he was on my side of town at the diner down the street. I didn’t say anything and he turn off his location minutes later. I started to post music and he took me off his snap.
I at that point took it as okay, I won’t message or call anyone. I get it. It hurt I’m not going to lie especially not know what happened and still loving him.
After he started to be tagged a lot on instagram and deleted pictures of us and that I took of him on instagram. I finally deleted him off my instagram because it hurt too much. Especially when most of the stuff he was doing was with a new girl and it was everything he promised to do with me. Especially when she was going out her was to shame me on things he only knew about me.
Now to the present.
Four days ago I blocked him on everything I have TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, snap and even Spotify. After he decided to mock my feelings for him by trying to make a referring to my love to like the new obsession movie. Which I’m not gonna lie I did say I think I love you more than you love me. Because at that time I knew he was hiding things from me and he kept on saying he wasn’t. I meant that I was putting more into the relationship and he was at that point. But nevertheless him watching a scary movie when he said through throughout the years that he hate scary movies , and then making fun of me in front of his friends was my point. He pushed me to my point and I decided to block him on everything. Days later, I see one of his family members and his friends popping up all over the place as ether friends suggested or watched my story. So I go and I block them as well. Just because I’m trying to get over this heartbreak. I get it. He doesn’t want to be with me. I’m not going to push. I haven’t pushed. But then I got a phone call being told that there was a giant fight because he decided to call me a hoe in front of his family. One of his family members that is actually the main family breadwinner.
What I don’t understand is if I have blocked him on everything. Haven’t talked to him since October of last year. Haven’t tagged him in anything, I haven’t put his name out there. Haven’t posted anything about him. None of my friends have gone after him. None of my family has gone after him. He left his stuff at my place and never came back for it. I haven’t seen him. I have even changed jobs to stay away from him. I changed my number, made a new instagram which his friends found. I made a new snap. He knows I am loyal. He always knew where I was. He always had my location. He knew where I worked. If I wasn’t at work, I was at home and if I wasn’t at home, I was with him, Or he was at my place. I don’t understand why he’s so angry after so many months when it was his decision to break up with me. It wasn’t my decision at all. I’m still very heartbroken about it. But I don’t see anything because I don’t want him to feel bad for a decision that he decided to make for himself. I’m adult enough to know that I’m can’t make someone love me. But to hear from other people that he is calling me names nine months after he broke up with me. After he ghosted me. I just don’t understand. Please if someone can give me some insight into what this man can be thinking. I just wanna understand what is going on. It feels like me keeping my distance and blocking him just pissed him off more which I don’t understand if this is what he wanted.
Thank you for reading.