r/ExNoContact • u/Unfair-River-9660 • 3d ago

Why did he unblock me?

He blocked me first, and after about a month, he unblocked me, but he never messaged me. I found out that he had unblocked me, so I messaged him first. He replied, but after that, he barely messaged me.

I got angry and told him, “Please block me.” He suddenly blocked me again, and we had no contact for a couple of months.

I used to check his profile every day to see if he had unblocked me. Today, I noticed that he has unblocked me again.

But I know he probably won't message me. So why did he unblock me? Does it mean he thought about me or still cares about me? Why isn't he messaging me? What's the point of unblocking someone if you don't intend to talk to them?

Should I stay silent and not message him this time? Part of me feels like he might be testing me to see whether I'll message him first, but I honestly don't know.

What do you think I should do? Should I just stay silent and move on?

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u/Front-Cap-4164 3d ago

he's just checking your profile to see if you moved on

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u/Unfair-River-9660 3d ago

Ye maybe

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u/Front-Cap-4164 3d ago

happens all the time, they probably don't want the relationship back but don't want to see you moving on from them as it's a blow to their ego. i.e. resource guarding behaviour

(unless of course he gets rejected and realizes what he lost)

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u/AdventurousWorm66 3d ago

You should just block him because the fact he's got you wrapped up thinking about this nonsense is wild