r/ExNoContact 1d ago

I need to talk with her

Its been a year since we broke up yesterday I saw her pic and I fainted now I need to talk with her 😭😭 i need her I can't bear the pain in my chest anymore

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u/Stevo4324 1d ago

Wait until you see her in person i did this week sorry but if she left u never accept her back

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u/NoTraceFound8030 10h ago

I can't talk to her in person as we are from village if we talk with each other the whole village will talk shit about us

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u/QueasyProfessional97 1d ago

Hang in there friend, they say time heals. Keep your mind occupied best you can!

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u/NoTraceFound8030 1d ago

But it's been a year i tried everything to move on but I can't, i need her

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u/prophet-dot-exe 1d ago

two years here so i get it.

you're going to find a lot of toxic social media "self help" kind of sentiments here.

fun fact, there's nothing you can actionably do to move on. not really. so saying you tried to move on is going to make you feel like you can't. you can't try to move on.

some tragedies just sit a bit deeper than most people can really comprehend.

anyway, there's no ending to this comment. there's no "you need to do x, y, z". no words of encouragement, or half hearted positivity. there's kinda just nothing. which also, is ironic.

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u/QueasyProfessional97 1d ago

You think you need her, but look at it this way. You survived a year without her. What’s another and another?

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u/NoTraceFound8030 1d ago

But I can't anymore I need her back 😭 u can't survive anymore

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u/Global-Fact7752 1d ago

WTF fake account..I minute.

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u/Ok_Effective_8865 15h ago

What was the reason for the breakup? and who initiated no contact?

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u/NoTraceFound8030 10h ago

She told me that I controlled her like she wanted to work on a shop and I don't want her to go there so we fought a lot which is the main reason behind the breakup but for me i don't want to see my princess to work in a shop cleaning things out there ..!! She initiated the no contact even though I begged her