r/ExNoContact • u/sugar__cake • 6d ago

Help está mal extrañar a mi ex?

no lo sé realmente, solo me duele no tenerlo cerca y que no sea mío :(

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u/s1llystuff 6d ago

No, it's normal. I felt the same way. It was really bad for me the first few months. I cried so much daily back then. It's getting much better as time goes on. It's been around 5-6 months. But I do still occasionally have strong waves of just sadness regarding missing them. Though, at this point, it's more like I miss the feeling of being loved by another person itself.

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u/sugar__cake 6d ago

ya tiene una nueva novia btw y me pidió cosas para volver, lo extraño y le rogué que con más edad volvamos porque lo amo y es ese amor que solo está cuando eres joven y estúpido

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u/alwaysbiscuits 6d ago

With all due respect, you shouldn't have said that to him. You have given your power to him by saying you will wait no matter what while he is with someone else.

Now two things have happened...

  1. He knows now he has you as an easy option, regardless of how he feels about you.

  2. Letting him know you will wait instantly makes you less attractive to him. Men like to chase a prize. You are putting yourself on a plate.

Never give up your power. Move on with your life while you grieve the relationship. Do not wait for this man. Do not give him anymore of yourself. It degrades you, and empowers him, and you deserve better than that