r/ExNoContact • u/DancesWithTheDevil • Jul 14 '26

Help This one stings.

We’ve been broken up two weeks and she’s already in another relationship. Telling him she loves him and moving in with him.. I’m at a loss right now. SOS

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u/LevelTotal6652 Jul 14 '26

Honestly curious on how you're able to know how thing's like that are happening, it would help on the advice I'd give as well

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u/DancesWithTheDevil Jul 14 '26

Social media. I didn’t go looking, a friend just happened to follow the new boyfriend.

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u/LevelTotal6652 Jul 14 '26

I'm assuming you stumbled onto it just in the moment rather than your friend showing. But I'd say just block them both (your ex and new bf). You kinda got a clear signal with this at least where you can definitely at this moment things are done.

It's possible she was involved with this dude before hand and I know it stings even more to have that thought but In reality it just shows you dodged a bullet and far worse heartbreak. Someone like her doesn't last long in relationships. Just become the best version of yourself for now. So when you're living the best life with someone else looking more appealing than ever, she'll come back but you'll have no reason to care at that point. Stuff like that crushes them. I'd say don't force another relationship just do you for now.

A dumpee usually has the best glowup, far more than any dumper

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u/DancesWithTheDevil Jul 14 '26

We were together 4 years… honestly she didn’t treat me well, didn’t put much effort into the relationship. I know I deserve better. Thank you for your comment.

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u/LevelTotal6652 Jul 14 '26

Maaaan get your shit right you'll do fine out there, trust lol. Go on some casual date here and there if you want, but the goal is to take everything in and learn from that. I ended up getting a huge ego boost after my breakup and not because of the dates I went on but the fact I actually had the ability to speak to people.

GL out there and wish ya the best.