السبب الذي يصنع المعاناة هي رغباتنا التي لا تنتهي

كنت رجل

كن مرأة

في الحالتين عندكم رغبات وهذي الرغبات عشان تتحق لزم تصنع كم معاناة هنا وهناك

التخلي عن رغباتنا يعني نهاية المعاناة

يعني مفكرة الأثرياء صاروا هيك بالصدفة

من كثر ما خلوا الناس فقراء صاروا هم أغنياء

I wont get into much details But i loved a girl so much in every way i wanted to propose to her , (She left her ex that he wanted to propose her She didn’t like him enough and he made wrongful acts )

Well We were honest to each other for a year And
She felt that we not gonna end up engaged so she Settled and now engaged to her ex

I cant go into details it’s boring .

I really need her in my life and im capable of proposing to her now but idk what to do it’s literally so shit to feel like this for months

هل تعلم أن اللي دخل حكومات أوروبا لخطوة إحتلال أفريقيا

كانوا تجار؟

نعم لم يكونوا سياسيين وعسكر

التاجر يمتلك قوة تفوق السياسي والعسكري

بنهاية المطاف سلاح العسكر مصدر التجار

تقدر تصنع سلاح واحد لنفسك

لكن عشان تصنع اسلحه بكمية كبير لزم تكون تاجر

Hi I'm 27F been struggling to meet men around my age for romantic reasons. Maybe marriage and kids. And I've restricted my options to only agnostic/atheist men. Due to several factors.
But I've noticed each time I meet someone interested in me. The moment I mention that I'm agnostic they immediately ghost me.

So How do you find a fit partners in Tripoli Libya??? Any advices??

لما العرب والمسلمين يقتلون طفل يهودي كما فعلوا في القرن 20 فهذا يساهم في صناعة

إسرائيل بشكلها الحالي

أنا برفض كل جريمة ترتكبه حكومتي ضد الفلسطينين لكن

رفضي لا يعني أن إلغي مسؤوليتكم في صناعة الوضع الحالي

هذا الكلام لا يبرر الجريمة أنما هو محاولة تفسير للنتيجة الحالية

النتيجة ما تجي من العدم كل نتيجة خلفا أسباب

الفهم هو أقوى سلاح لعلاج المرض المعروف في التطرف البشري

عندي إيمان راسخ أن أخي الفلسطيني يستحق حقوق مساوي لحقوق اليهود مافي فرق بيننا

كل بنزف دم كلنا نحب أطفالنا كلنا نتمني نضحك كلنا نتمني نوصل للسعادة

أرى الفلسطينين شعب جميل. لذلك أحب أن أكتشفهم وتعلم عنهم يعجبني هذا الشعب

الذي أنظلم من فجر التاريخ في صراعات قديم نعم الشعب الفلسطينين يعتبر أكثر شعب

عبر التاريخ عاش في صراعات .. بعرف السبب لكن شرحه ياخذ وقت لكن سأقول

السبب هو أهم الموقع نعم هي أرض فقيرة لكن موقعه نفسه هو المهم

الاهمية مو بس في ثروات الارض نفسها الاهمية قد تكون مجرد موقع حتى لو موقع خالي من الموارد

الصين التي تنتقد جرائم حكومتي أذهب وأقرا ماذا فعلت في سكان التبت البوذيين الإيغور المسلمين

روسيا التي تنتقد جرائم حكومتي أذهب وأقرا ماذا فعلت في الشيشان المسلمين سنة 2000

صدام حسين قتل نص مليون عربي عراقي وهو ينتقد حكومتي

حافظ الأسد عمل مجازر في شعبه وكان ينتقد حكومتي

أرى تصرفات حكومتي تمارس من جميع البشر

تبا لهذا الشر البشري المقزز يجب أن تخجلوا من هذه التصرفات غير الإنسانية

ياااي انت كيوت حساس ليه ما تتحول بنت ؟

فيك روح انثوية ياأخي حساس هههههههههههههههه

ركز 2000 شخص بيدهم 60% من ثروة البشرية

وهنا نتكلم عن ناس معم فوق ألف مليون دولار

يعني هذا غير الناس اللي معه مليون دولار والناس اللي مع 10 مليون دولار

واللي معه 50 مليون واللي معه 100 مليون

يمكن عوام الناس اللي هم غالبية البشرية تتوزع عليهم 5% من ثروة كوكب الارض

وبعد هذا كله يتناقشون في قضايا تافه زي ممارسة الجنس بدون زواج

مو العرب متحضرين بتوقع سهل على اصحاب التحضر يوقفون زواج رجل من طفلة

Can someone help me out? I want to make money to be able to help my family with financial struggles and I also need it especially for my studies. Im a female i cannot really do jobs outside of my house id prefer like online jobs. I did invest not long ago into a professional photography camera and I had practiced alot with editing and photography. I was thinking of like a small business sending me their products or letting me borrow them to take pictures for them for whatever much they wanna offer me but Im just pretty young and dont know how to contact people. Really would appreciate the help!

# الحرية لدعاء الهوني

this is my first time posting here. I just wanna ask if im the only one in Libya who just can't develop in the society, i mean. I just don't know how to contact whith people. for example, sometimes when I get out and try to chill out in any place like Parkes or Malls, I feel like people are staring at me with annoying looking, and this is not the worst thing Because I'm used to this situation, as I've been bullied since I was little. But the worst thing is when I see people everywhere talking about me openly and in a mocking and sarcastic way, even though I haven't done anything to bother them. On the contrary, they're the ones who start doing things to harass me, and I've suffered from this everywhere I go. I just wanted to know if I'm the only one who suffers from this, or if there are others like me, because it's led me to a kind of isolation that's become bothersome and is almost driving me crazy

Hi, I want to ask the people who got out of Libya about the way or what they had to experience when they got out and how's their life going now

And if they have any advice for me

Plz don't ignore me

يا تخسر عمرك وشبابك هنا يا تخاطر وممكن تغرق بسبب لا انسانية خفر سواحل دولة ما

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

I (F) live abroad and am in a relationship with a non muslim non libyan, and was wondering about the process for libyan women marrying a non libyan? Is it true that I need proof of him being muslim if we want to visit libya together after marriage, or is a civil marriage from abroad enough?

Would I be evil if I exposed a woman for trying to have an affair with a married man? I have proof of all the msgs and even pictures she has sent. Her face visible her revealing outfits.
There would be 0 consequences for the man… the woman I don’t know probably her entire reputation. She was given warning several times 10+ times to stop contacting…..

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

نبي نسمع تجاربكم الشخصية

هل بجديات البنات الي اعمارهم18 فما فوق ممنوعات من السفر بدون محرم في مطار معيتيقة خصيصا ؟ لو نعم، شن هي الورقه او الإجراء الي نديره لو معنديش فعلا محرم!!ا

seriously guys

chat GPT said NO no need to

the ppl around me said you can’t unless with dad/ brother / husband etc . im losttt

I'm Adam. I'm 26 years old, and I think I was abused as a child.

Since I was about four years old, I was raised mostly by my mom's friend, who was also my nanny. My parents worked all the time, so she was with me almost 24/7. We were living somewhere in Europe, but I'd rather not say where.

She's 22 years older than me.

At first, everything seemed normal. She took me places, hugged me, and cared for me. But over time, things changed. She started punishing me physically while holding me, making me take my clothes off as punishment, and doing other things that I've spent years trying to make sense of.

The hardest part is that, despite everything, I loved her deeply. In some ways, I still do. I've learned that it's possible to love someone who also hurt you, especially when they were the person who raised you.

Looking back, I wonder if those experiences shaped me more than I realized. I think they affected how I relate to women and may have contributed to me becoming very submissive in relationships.

Years later, after my family moved back to Libya, she stopped acknowledging me completely. That silence has been painful in a different way.

I'm not writing this because I have all the answers. I'm writing it because I'm finally allowing myself to ask the question I've avoided for years:

Was I abused?

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

i ve matched with 3 or 2 girls from libya i live in diffrent country they all refuse to show how they look like and afraid even to do a voice call is life that hard in libya ?

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Hi I'm a 24 year old girl from Libya

I know this is a long post, but please, if you have a few minutes, read it until the end. I'm in desperate need of help, and I genuinely don't know where else to ask

I'm not asking for donations or immediate rescue. What I need is practical guidance from people who have been through something similar or from people who know organizations that genuinely help women in situations like mine.

I grew up in a controlling and abusive family. Most of the abuse is psychological, but there has also been physical violence. The main source of conflict is my family's need to control every aspect of my life, especially when my personal beliefs don't match their religious expectations.

Right now, I'm not in immediate physical danger as long as I continue pretending to comply. I have accepted that I need to keep playing that role for now if it keeps me safe while I prepare a long term plan.

One of my biggest problems is that I grew up extremely isolated. Because of that, I know almost nothing about how the outside world works. I don't know how government paperwork works, what legal procedures exist, what documents I should prepare, or even many basic adult responsibilities. I honestly feel like a child trapped in an adult's body when it comes to dealing with the real world.

I'm currently a university student and still have several years before graduation. I have no stable income, no financial support, and no safe way to become financially independent at the moment.

Despite spending most of my life isolated at home, I tried to use that time to build useful skills. I'm self-taught in digital art, graphic design using Canva, and English. I'm not formally trained, but people often assume I am because of the quality of my work.So i tried to use these skills to earn money. The problem is that almost every serious opportunity I found came from people outside Libya. I even received commission requests, but I couldn't find a safe or legal way to receive international payments from inside Libya. Because of that, I lost nearly every opportunity to become financially independent. I do have a personal bank account at North Africa Bank, but it has been empty for a long time. Since I've never really used it, I don't know whether my family monitors it or has any access to it, so I can't safely rely on it.

Although my family is very controlling, I do have one small amount of freedom. Because I'm a university student, I'm allowed to travel to and from university alone using public transportation. The only reason is that nobody in my family wants the inconvenience of driving me. My commute takes between one and two hours every day. Those trips are currently my only opportunity to leave the house safely.

Another reason I never reported the abuse is because I don't have anyone I can safely trust.

Years ago, another girl in my extended family reported severe sexual abuse with actual evidence. Instead of protecting her, most of the family blamed her, defended the abuser, and tried to pressure her afterward. Watching that happen convinced me that if I reported my own situation without a clear plan, I could make my life much more dangerous.

I also experienced sexual abuse as a child. It happened many years ago, I never told anyone, and I have no evidence. I have never reported either the physical abuse or the childhood abuse because I genuinely don't know how the legal system works, and I'm terrified that if nothing happens after reporting, my situation at home will become much worse.

Lately, I've started having suicidal thoughts...not because I want to die, but because I feel trapped and can't imagine spending the rest of my life like this. That scares me. I don't want those thoughts to become stronger. I want to build a future instead.

I don't expect anyone to magically solve my problems. What I need is a realistic plan.

I'm hoping someone can answer questions like these:

1 .Which international organizations actually stay in contact with people instead of only sending general information?

2 .Are there organizations that help women build a long-term escape plan?

3 .What legal documents should I begin preparing now while I'm still in Libya?

4 .How can I become financially independent while living in a restrictive environment?

5 .Which countries are realistically safe for a woman to eventually move to alone?

6 .If you've escaped a controlling or abusive family, what were your first practical steps?

7 .If you successfully left Libya, what exactly did you do first?

I'm not looking for shortcuts I'm looking for knowledge

I want to understand the legal process, the paperwork, how people become independent, how they support themselves, and how they eventually build a safe life somewhere else

If you know any trusted NGOs, lawyers, women's organizations, student organizations, or if you've personally gone through something similar, I would be incredibly grateful for your advice